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    VAANG NICHAYAM; NICHAYATHARTHAM CEREMONY DETAILS.(marriage)


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    Usually nichayathartham will take place in groom's house. Bride's parents will come there with thamboolam, fruits, flower, sweet,(like milk halva) 500 grams, manjal 100 gram, kumkumam 50 gram, sandal powder 5 gram, Grooim's parents will receive them , provide the bride's parents with lunch and coffee, exchange thamboolam, each other , Then they will left the groom's house. That is all. Again this will be done the previuos day of the marriage.

    To fix best muhoortha day without 21 doshas it will take time on those days. On those days groom side people also will go to another place where they can get more money.

    But now-a- days everything has changed. WE have to see the marriage mandapam first and according to the availability of the mandapam we are fixing a date for marriage. Now a days Brides are asking so many questions. such as how many waste paper are there in your house.

    But very rich people are doing this in a grand manner. Groom's parents are arranging in kalyana mandapam. Rent and meals/tiffin expenses are borne by the groom's father. to be continued
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    If you want to take video make arrange ments for them. Number of invitees from both parties should be determined and to order for meals/tiffin etc; contact marriage caterers. If you are doing in the Groom's house mottai maadi, make arrangements for shamiana, meals table. chairs, water bottle. paper cups for coffee and water.

    If you want to give a gift purchase them. If you want to givr them thamboolam, coconut, or orange,sweet and kai muruku make arrangements for them. purchase plastic/and/or paper bags.

    Bride's parents should buy dress for groom and Groom's parents must buy saree for the Bride. and also for the parents of the bride, groom's parents are buying dhoty/pant and saree/blouse and bride's parents will buy dhoty/pant and saree/blouse for Groom's parents.

    If the bride's parents are coming to the kalyana mandapam for this function they must bring kuthu vilakku.oil,thiri, match box, knief aasana palagai or thadukku, pancha pathra uthirini, brass sombu, 6 plates and trays, Bell, dhoopa kal; deepa kall. oothubathi, camphor, uthiri poo, haram -2 nos for bride and groom, thodutha flower 10 metre, sugar 1kg, kalkandu.200 gram; manjal, 200 gram; turmeric powder 100 gram, sandal powder 5 gram; kumkumam 10 gram.

    paruppu thengai one pair, sweet Seer size. 31 nos. milk halwa 500 gram; dress for groom and for his parents, Dry fruits, Almond, pistha, cashew nuts, kissmiss , lion dates etc; Plantain fruits poovan, rasthali, sevvalai, jack fruit, mangoes, apple, pine apple, grapes, koyya, pomegranate, etc; to be continued
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    If the bride's parents are coming to the house of groom , groom's parents will give and help them for doing ganapathy pooja.
    Bride's father must do ganapathy pooja with the help of his sastrigal; Then graha preethi dhaanam; Then give chandanam and kumkuman sugar and kalkandu to groom's party people. Then place the following things in a brass thambalam,

    Two turmeric pasted coconuts, flowers; fruits; thamboolam; manjal, kumkumam, dress and with chanting manthras hand it over to the Groom's father. He will receive it saying showbhanam.

    Now the Groom's father will give in a brass plate 2 coconuts pasted with turmeric powder, flowers, fruits, manjal and kumkumam and dress for the Bride, after showing chandanam,kumkumam,sugar and kalkandu to the Bride's party. chanting mantras with the help of groom's sastrigal' Brid's father will receive it by saying shobhanam.

    Use one turmeric pasted coconut for making sweet and consume it, The other turmeric pasted coconut do brake it in a pillayar temple. Both the bride and groom will come there. wearing new clothes , bride's brother will give him chandanam ,kumkumam and garlanded him. Groom's mother will garland the bride after giving her chandanam and kumkumam. Bride and groom will do namaskaram to all and to blessings.

    Groom will introduce his relatives and friends to the bride and the bride will introduce her relatives and friends to the groom, The sastrigal will read aloudly the nichayathartha patrica which is following.
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    Nigalum mangalakaramana ............varudam............madham..........the thi.............kilamai...........thithi..........nnakshatram...........yogam koodiya subha dhinathil udayathi naligai.............me............kul............( oorin peyar)................Gothram..................... .Peranum..............Kumaranumana chiranjeevi ...................(oor peyar)......................Gothram............... ........pouthriyum....................kumariyumana ....................yai

    bhagavat kripaiyudan (if you know the dATE) ..................varusham.............madham..... ....thethi.........anru subha muhurthathil panigrahanam seithu kolwathai/ kannikadhanam seithu kodupathai iru pakkatharudaya sammadhathudan periyorkalal nichayikkapattathu.

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    Dear Mr Gopalan

    Excellent illustration. It should be a useful guide to many .Thanks.

    pc ramabadran
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    Who would buy the poo haarams and other pooja paraphernalia? Is it sufficient that the groom's side arranges coffee/lunch, tamboolam for the bride's people?
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    Groom's side arranges for coffee,lunch, kalyana mandapam rent, groom side sastrigal dakshinai, If you are celebrating in the kalyana mandapam pooja articles, poo haram will be purchased only by the bride's people. If you are celebrating in the grrom's house mottai maadi shamiana, chair, table, water, paper cups , plastic bags for thamboolam,orange or coconut, any gift, any sweet and savory including for the bride's people also must be borne by groom's people.Groom's people is paying for video if required and they are buying saree for bride and to the parents of the bride,saree and dhothy, betel;betelnut, fruits, flower, manjal,sandal powder, kumkumam ,

    Kuthu vilaku, pancha pathra uthirini; doopa kal;deepakal, thaduku or aasana palagai can be supplied by the groom's party if they
    are celebrating on their house mottai madi.
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    namaste shri gopalan sir, the work and time you have given for this new thread is very useful & i feel its a guide sort for all indians and those who are abroad .this shows your keen work skill and your dedication to it.thank you once again sir.
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    I do agree with Dr Narayani that your valuable inputs helps us a lot. Thank you very much, sir.
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    Sir if you can make all your publications in a book type we can download and keep it in our computer under library for ready reference. You are doing great help to mankind and god bless you sir.
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