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    Rituals for a Marriage between Iyengar Girl & Iyer boy- How it should be conducted?


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    Request the forum to clarify on the above subject. Whether the rituals should be conducted according to boy side customs or girl side customs?

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    The groom's side custom has to be followed, normally!

    But, it depends on how 'strong' the bride's side is!!
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    Thank you. If any supporting reference material is available, it will be helpful.
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    If the question has come up in this forum, then most likely there is a debate among the concerned parties. I would say see if you can try to compromise and strike a balance (assuming the rituals permit and not an expert there) by trying to see if you can do a few of both or may be all of both :-) if you time/money/patience permits. Most likely 20+ years from now you would be laughing at even having to debate it, but for now, it is important to get both parties to hit it off in a good note.
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    Quote Originally Posted by rajagopalan1000 View Post
    Request the forum to clarify on the above subject. Whether the rituals should be conducted according to boy side customs or girl side customs?

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    Rajagopalan




    In my family, I have witnessed 2 such marriages. Both were a compromise between the two sets of parents and their priests.
    Last edited by prasad1; 13-08-2018 at 02:19 AM.
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    The same reply came to my mind too!!
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