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Daksha Kumar
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Marriage is Union of two souls .Caste should not come in the way of such an Union.Nor should preference of one to follow the path of priesthood.
Person venturing into such a profession should not be setting conditions regarding dress or ornaments to be worn by spouse.
Well it might be a bit odd for the wife to be dressed in modern dress while my husband is a active priest with seniority
The most sought after priest for conducting marriages in Delhi has given his wife th freedom to wear
clothes off her choice.She wears maxis and other modern dresses.Laying down conditions on dress etc. Is impinging on personal freedom of mate.
As a person in love,the girl might agree to wear madisar or sport nose rings.But insistence on it or justifying is atrocious.
I am not doing it for the sake of love but I can understand their situation & willing to change my self, If I don't their is no point having a love marriage
It shows a perverse mindset
People change after marriage . Priests may decide to adopt normal profession after marriage .Who knows ? I know some orthodox men with kudumi shedding it and wearing jeans and going to another profession.I also know men suddenly becoming religeous and start sporting kudumi and panchakacham after retirement.
I sincerely think she should not accept any dress code to please husband or in laws.She should not compromise on issues such as dress code which is violation of her personal rights
Well I have decided to accept it, to be honest it was an expectation for which I obliged, It will cause me some problems and I will not be able to do certain things, but when you know there are some things only you could do you will not have any regrets
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