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There is no doubt that you should marry, if you are to enjoy the life that fits your natures best. Solitude and loneliness are death to you, and given suitable companionship, you are a very charming person. You want to marry young one. For this, you should choose someone who is cheerful and entertaining as a partner. You require a home that is tastefully arranged and which reveals nothing of a sordid nature.
You should compromise for some of the aspects according to your horo and after marriage, you will have a good life. The best period for your marriage is between September 2009 to December 2010.
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shankar,
your response is an interesting read of an enigma bound within an answer. i thoroughly enjoyed reading it.
like me, i see that you too are a well wisher for ajay, and have come up with an alternative yet hopeful path, for the young man to find a mate.
both of us gather that ajay, being 33 years old, is on the upper cusp of an impatient bachelorhood, and we both wish him a speedy yet correct remedy.
i have snipped a portion of your post and analyzed it. pray, enlighten me as to what you exactly mean, and the method you would recommend, ajay would go about doing it
re the doshams that you mentioned, i am ignorant of those, and would bow before your wisdom. what i don't know and what you know is a deep see with no chance of any bridge building to understanding or believing on my part.
let us take the rest...
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There is no doubt that you should marry, if you are to enjoy the life that fits your natures best. ...
i agree 100% in this statement. where is the added on value from your viewpoint? here is a guy who wants to marry, and you have only reinforced that. don't you think it is a bit fluffy?
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Solitude and loneliness are death to you, and given suitable companionship, you are a very charming person.
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i agree 100%. again, my reasoning is same as above. humans are born to be social as a rule. so indeed solitude and loneliness ARE equivalent death.
you have the right icing to top up this statement ..'given suitable companionship, you are a very charming person'.
i hope that whether ajay gets a 'suitable companion' or not, ajay is a charming person by himself. it would make us think twice, if ajay's behaviour is bound to his potential mate. can we please give ajay the benefit of the doubt, and agree that he is a 'charming person' regardless?
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You want to marry young one. .
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now sir, pray tell me, who would on his or her right mind would desire to marry an 'old' one, whatever that mean?
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For this, you should choose someone who is cheerful and entertaining as a partner.
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this sentence does not connect to marrying 'young one'. what has 'young' got to do with someone who is cheerfull and entertaining. i have seen a few young women, who are the epitome of grief, and always appear to walk around in the belief that they are carrying the sorrow of this world.
in the context of arranged marriages, when the 'getting to know' process is so brief and superficial, how will ajay choose someone who is 'cheerful and entertaining'?
the poNN paarkal is half hour.. and how much can we judge a personality and compatibility in that brief period?
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You require a home that is tastefully arranged and which reveals nothing of a sordid nature.
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please tell me who does not like a home arranged to their tastes? what does 'sordid' mean in this context?
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You should compromise for some of the aspects according to your horo and after marriage, you will have a good life. ...
what aspects does ajay have to compromise? you have not given him exact details that he could follow. does this compromise have to be done now, so that he can have a good life after marriage? or should he compromise after marriage ie the adjustment period with his wife? don't we all do that or otherwise hell results?
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The best period for your marriage is between September 2009 to December 2010.
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i wish this with you 100%, though i wish for it sooner. ajay has waited long enough. may God bless him with a compatible mate.
shankar, more than anything else, i enjoyed reading your note, and parsing it. i do not know much about horoscopes.
here is a story. in my grand parents' house in malabar, we used to have a panikkar who used shells to predict the future.
prior to my aunt's marriage, my grandfather had purchased diamonds at surajmals in madras, and had telegraphed my grandma of the same.
the grandma called the panikkar to do a gaNikkal. the man predicted that there was a dark spot in one of the diamonds, and this black spot would cause misfortune for my aunt/uncle to be.
on hearing this, my grandfather, who was still in madras, took the diamond back to surajmals, who insisted that they never sold imperfect diamonds, but to satisfy the customer they examined it again.
the boss, almost fell down, when through the micrscope,they found a minute carbon particle embedded between the cuts of the diamond. surajmals, promptly replaced the diamond.
but this same panikkar, predicted that my parents' second child would be a boy. it so happened i ended up with a sister. 50% chance you say?
thank you ...
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