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Horror encounter!

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Raji Ram

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Young Ambis are very much concerned about their life partner and equally concerned are their parents.

In a family known to me, the parents got a good match for the first son and the d. i. l willingly helped in

their office work too. It was easy for her because she has a C A degree and family has a roaring business.

When the hunt started for the second son, problems too started! All the prospective brides' families asked

for partition of the property between the sons! After about two years, they got a 'match' from smarthas

settled in North India. Ambi's parents wanted to make sure that the would be d. i. l likes their family. So,

she was brought and entertained for about a week in their palatial house in Kerala.

Girl was very quiet and did not mix much with the members of the family. Still she seemed to be happy!

Then a grand gala wedding was arranged and major expenses were taken care of by the groom's parents.

After about five days, an auspicious time was selected for the first personal encounter of the couple.

Bride refused to let the groom sleep on the bed. Thinking that the girl was a bit more conservative, the

groom obliged! (Sounds like a Tamil movie, right?)


......... To be continued............
 
Time and tide waits for no man. It was about a fortnight and the poor groom continued to sleep on floor!

His parents then noticed that there was absolutely NO happiness in his face. The girl was as quiet as ever.

Mother started probing as to what was happening between the newly weds. When she put forth the question

point blank, the son was all in tears!

This is what had happened:

Spending about a week of sleepless nights after the marriage, the Ambi tried to get onto the bed. Lo and behold!

The girl took out a knife from under her pillow! She pointed it towards him and said in a low tone that he would

be stabbed, if he comes near her! He was in a total shock! But, he was unable to narrate this horror encounter, till

his mother asked him about his dull and unhappy face.

Unable to digest the fact, the family consulted their family lawyer. He probed into the matter and found out that

the girl was in a mental asylum for quite some time and was on pacifying drugs to keep her calm and that is why

she did not talk much to anyone.

They could have stopped the wedding, if they had probed earlier. What else will take the blame except FATE!!

Then what? Court; case; marriage nullified due to major mental heath disorder of the girl. :sad:
 
Nice .Thanks.

I get good sleep every night.

Pl write such horror stories.

I would love to have some sleepless nights thinking of women with knives waiting to slit my throat.

Looks like someone imaginative is making up stories to explain a failed marriage.

These days marriages fail for simple reasons , not because some girl waves a knife around threatening to slit throat.
 
Dear Krish Sir,

Yeah! It is just like a story in Kollywood movies. But this has happened. :sad:

Spy agents could prove everything in the court - the time spent by the girl in a mental asylum and medicines

prescribed for her etc. In fact, I attended that grand gala wedding and got a gift too! (I feel bad to see that gift!)

Since the court declared the marriage as null and void, I have to believe this.
 
The poor Ambi. He can steel himself, look for a supari killer, pay him a lakh of rupees and send the father and mother of the girl straight to heaven/hell for cheating him.
 
If anyone spies on a girl,she would be justified if she chases him out with knife in hand.lol

Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction.

Many lose mental balance if they are emotionally weak.

Thick skinned like us require an earth quake to move us.

I have slept thru many quakes.

My flat in east delhi is in seismic zone.

Some flats have developed minor cracks.

We feel the effects either due to movement of himalayan plates or from western side from afganisthan or parts of pakistan pakhtunwa province.

Our flats are so much over designed by DDA[delhi development authority] that quakes do not bring them down.Nor do the houses of new delhi designed and built by

the british.Even after seventy to eighty years -connaught place renamed Rajiv chowk remains solid showing no signs of crumbling.
 
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Raji Madam,

Your story is thrilling...The Ambi has been taken for a royal ride....But there is no revenge in this..Feel sorry for the Ambi...The elders (both sides) are responsible for the mess!!
 
vgane said:
Raji Madam,

Your story is thrilling...The Ambi has been taken for a royal ride....But there is no revenge in this..Feel sorry for the Ambi...The elders (both sides) are responsible for the mess!!
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in many cases.....elders are responsible....especially in brahmin arranged marriages....in love marriages...they

are helpless...
 
Even boys with problems-mostly irresponsible considered good for nothing-parents get them married with the hope marriage would change them.

Many girls are also cheated.In fact more girls get cheated than boys.

And it is mostly girls who file for divorce and not boys.
 
Raji Ram said:
Then what? Court; case; marriage nullified due to major mental heath disorder of the girl. :sad:
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Parents should have known that daughter is unsound for marriage..lucky she did not stab the Ambi or slice off anything in a fit of delusion.
 
renuka said:
Parents should have known that daughter is unsound for marriage..
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Unfortunately many parents in India thinks Marriage is a solution for such problem..... In a way it is true! Problem shifts from parents to the SPOUSE!!...LOL
 


Who knows this story is real or reel one.

It may be a fake one too like that of an imagination of one great mind's cock and bull story in the other thread. LOL

For some good reasons, the poster might have censored the romantic side of Ambi and the bride

Is there any scientifc evidence to prove that girls with mental disorders also suffer frorm lovesickness, love rejection, etc ?

Love at times, is itself considered as a madness.

Romatic encounter after a horror encounter should be really thrilling!!

Of courses such things cannot be discussed in a court of law and the judges decide the case only based on the evidences produced and hearing the arguments.

How do the Honble judges know the acts of romatic encounter, if any.....took place between them unless explained in detail.

IMO in fact the parents of the girl should have consulted legal experts and should have gone to Court for an appeal in this case.

As a responsible parent, they shoud have ensured Ambi had a very nice and memorable 'Honey moon'.

Since sky is the limit for imagination, one is free to come up with lot of such Casino Mamis an Spencer Mamas again and again... LOL

Let members have more fun ........:cheer2::cheer2::laugh::laugh::laugh: Let their tribe grow.
 
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krish44 said:
........ 1. Many girls are also cheated.In fact more girls get cheated than boys.

2. And it is mostly girls who file for divorce and not boys.
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1. May be true.

2. Yeah, because girls are more brave and their expectations are sky high! :)

P.S: Some guys just grin and bear it, to save the marriage; years back mostly women used to do that.
 

Such post reads like a member who comes here quite often with a review on films

It seems troubled mind of this member is running extra mile for every such posting

Some have a Sadhu or Guru mentality to come here and preach all the time by wearing a puritan mask.

This is the incorrigible mindset. One cannot straighten the kink in the dog's tail.

 
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krish44 said:
The above post looks like plot of a tamil serial complete with crazy woman, with flash back of love,romantic encounters,court case with hero heroine ,lawyers and judge. .........
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Dear Krish Sir,

World has many persons in the category of 'Doubting Thomas'.
Just have fun reading their posts and IGNORE them. :peace:
 

World also has personalities like Joseph Goebbels

And as such, one can not take granted members of this Forum to accept everything in toto and not to question whatever one ....mit here.
 
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GANESH65 said:
Unfortunately many parents in India thinks Marriage is a solution for such problem.....
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That family is very close to me and hence they gave nice gifts to me, when I attended the wedding. That Ambi's

parents wanted to make sure that the girl likes their family set up and kept her with them for a week, before they

finalized the wedding. In all the earlier proposals, the girl's parents demanded partition of the family's huge property.

Now, we can only feel sorry for that Ambi. :sad:
 
renuka said:
Parents should have known that daughter is unsound for marriage..lucky she did not stab the Ambi or slice off anything in a fit of delusion.
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Dear Renu,

As Ganesh Sir has pointed out, some parents think that marriage will cure the mental illness of their son / daughter.
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There are parents who believe that marriage will cure mental illness

There are parents who believe that going to a particular temple will cure mental illness

Some believe that going to a sheer or a swamiji or a godmen (mostly fake) may heal the illness

Few believe in traditional healers and consult them

There are parents who perform ritual activities to remove the illness

There are parents who go to sorcerers and other faith healers.

Unfortunately only few consult a qualified psychiatrists. :)

Anyway we members are having FUN at the cost of misery of one of the Ambies.
 
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Raji Ram said:
That family is very close to me and hence they gave nice gifts to me, when I attended the wedding. That Ambi's

parents wanted to make sure that the girl likes their family set up and kept her with them for a week, before they

finalized the wedding. In all the earlier proposals, the girl's parents demanded partition of the family's huge property.

Now, we can only feel sorry for that Ambi. :sad:
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In case the parents know it earlier, what they should do is to try and get medical help for the affected person rather just get him/her married. Here they are knowingly spoiling another life. There are two such incidences in my extended family, (both boys and are victims). One has a tragic as the girl committed suicide and the other one manages to go on somehow with continued medical help. I also feel sorry for this boy. Only thing you can do as a relative now is to encourage the family of the girl to continue with the medical attention the girl was receiving.
 
GANESH65 said:
......... I also feel sorry for this boy. Only thing you can do as a relative now is to encourage the family of the girl to continue with the medical attention the girl was receiving.
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Dear Sir,

Thank you for your kind words. :)

FYI, I know only the boy's family very well. They have a roaring business and have a palatial house in Kerala.

Since parents did not want a partition of their wealth till they are alive, they accepted this girl, without knowing

her mental illness. She was on sedative medicines and so she appeared very calm and quiet to all of us.

I hope her parents are continuing to give her some treatment and make her a normal person again.
 
GANESH65 said:
In case the parents know it earlier, what they should do is to try and get medical help for the affected person rather just get him/her married. Here they are knowingly spoiling another life. There are two such incidences in my extended family, (both boys and are victims). One has a tragic as the girl committed suicide and the other one manages to go on somehow with continued medical help. I also feel sorry for this boy. Only thing you can do as a relative now is to encourage the family of the girl to continue with the medical attention the girl was receiving.
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Concealing illness at time of marriage can be fatal..Like someone with epilepsy
 
Raji Ram said:
Young Ambis are very much concerned about their life partner and equally concerned are their parents.

In a family known to me, the parents got a good match for the first son and the d. i. l willingly helped in

their office work too. It was easy for her because she has a C A degree and family has a roaring business.

When the hunt started for the second son, problems too started! All the prospective brides' families asked

for partition of the property between the sons! After about two years, they got a 'match' from smarthas

settled in North India. Ambi's parents wanted to make sure that the would be d. i. l likes their family. So,

she was brought and entertained for about a week in their palatial house in Kerala.

Girl was very quiet and did not mix much with the members of the family. Still she seemed to be happy!

Then a grand gala wedding was arranged and major expenses were taken care of by the groom's parents.

After about five days, an auspicious time was selected for the first personal encounter of the couple.

Bride refused to let the groom sleep on the bed. Thinking that the girl was a bit more conservative, the

groom obliged! (Sounds like a Tamil movie, right?)


......... To be continued............
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It seems the boy's family was more interested in non-partition than finding a suitable mate. Why didn't they find a suitable bride in Tamil Nadu?
 
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