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TO WHOM SO EVER IT MAY CONCERN R.SUBBARAMAN (vignesh]

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renuka

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Life is not so easy living alone in my house with no job or income and living without monthly income for more than 8 years with only wife to support and living with your in-laws near by

Dear Vignesh ji,

I have to admit that none of us can truly understand what your are going through.

I know that most people think we should solve our problems by hook or crook but that only holds good when we have a balanced state of mind.

For a person in depression his/her mind thinks so differently that no normal person can ever understand.

That is why I advise you to see a good doctor and get some help.

Once you start to set your mind right..only then you can really take anyone's advice.

Its not an easy situation you are in.

My sincere advise to you is NOT to think you are a Failure.

Dont compare yourself with anyone else..thinking I should have been this or should have been that.

Let the world say anything but we only become a failure when we let ourselves suffer.

Even if you earn less than what you should dont see that as a failure..each one of us can only cope what our mind can handle.

Less income is not failure..its not easy either but strive to get some happiness. Success is being happy.

Think what makes you happy..work on those line..even if it means getting a lesser job with shorter working hours would be a good start.. go ahead and try..if that makes you happy you will recover faster and get back your once stable mind and you would be back to normal life once again.

Discuss your problems with some near and dear ones.
 
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vignesh2014

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For Job purpose, i travelled through out India ...Now only due to my bad health like my body pains and ankle pains, i'm not travelling anywhere. I know how to overcome my phobias but still i don't know why no body think of western way of living as a slow poison which is causing havoc in my life only but in millions of life. MAY BE THIS FORUM IS FULL OF VERY INTELLIGENT AND ABOVE AVERAGE INCOME PEOPLE WITH A VERY STEADY MONTHLY INCOME.
 
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vignesh2014

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QUOTE=renuka;257297Dear Vignesh ji,

I have to admit that none of us can truly understand what your are going through.

I know that most people think we should solve our problems by hook or crook but that only holds good when we have a balanced state of mind.

For a person in depression his/her mind thinks so differently that no normal person can ever understand.

NO DOCTOR IS EVER ABLE TO DIAGNOSE PROPERLY VERY PECULIAR THINGS AND IT MAY GET WORSE ONLY IF NOT PROPERLY DIAGNOSED. I RELY MORE ON MY SELF HELP IN THIS REGARD OR MY DEAR WIFE RATHER THAN ANYBODY. THIS IS NOT DUE TO THE FEAR OF RIDICULE BUT DUE TO THE FEAR OF EXPLOITATION BY OUTSIDE PEOPLE

That is why I advise you to see a good doctor and get some help.

Once you start to set your mind right..only then you can really take anyone's advice.

Its not an easy situation you are in.

My sincere advise to you is NOT to think you are a Failure.

Dont compare yourself with anyone else..thinking I should have been this or should have been that.

Let the world say anything but we only become a failure when we let ourselves suffer.

YES THIS IS TRUE ...I NEVER CONSIDER MYSELF A FAILURE

Even if you earn less than what you should dont see that as a failure..each one of us can only cope what our mind can handle.

Less income is not failure..its not easy either but strive to get some happiness. Success is being happy.

Think what makes you happy..work on those line..even if it means getting a lesser job with shorter working hours would be a good start.. go ahead and try..if that makes you happy you will recover faster and get back your once stable mind and you would be back to normal life once again.

Discuss your problems with some near and dear ones.


SOME ARE VERY USEFUL SUGGESTIONS. IAM FOLLOWING ON THAT. THANKS FOR YOUR OVER ALL CONCERN OF WELL BEING OF A CLOSE ASSOCIATE
 
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renuka

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NO DOCTOR IS EVER ABLE TO DIAGNOSE PROPERLY VERY PECULIAR THINGS AND IT MAY GET WORSE ONLY IF NOT PROPERLY DIAGNOSED. I RELY MORE ON MY SELF HELP IN THIS REGARD OR MY DEAR WIFE RATHER THAN ANYBODY. THIS IS NOT DUE TO THE FEAR OF RIDICULE BUT DUE TO THE FEAR OF EXPLOITATION BY OUTSIDE PEOPLE

Dear Vignesh Ji,

Yours is a clear cut case...its just that I am not writing your diagnosis here becos its an open forum.

Its easy to diagnose your condition...no well trained doctor can miss this.

In fact treatment for your condition need not even be medication but more of psychotherapy.

Have you realized that at times you have racing thoughts that somehow make you start many heavy threads in forum?

At times you seem very creative and productive and at times totally dejected.

I am already giving you a hint on your diagnosis.

You should make use of your creative mode and try writing.

Why dont you approach any magazine in your place and try writing?
 
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