TO WHOM SO EVER IT MAY CONCERN R.SUBBARAMAN (vignesh]

[vignesh2014]

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I want to apologize for the inconvenience caused to this forum by me. previously i had written in this forum in the name of vaithehi (My wife] and as rsubba2014. This is not for any cheap publicity , gaining favour or to cheat anybody. I was at that time in a very desperate mood having always having the fear of my job and the security of financial concerns leaving the burden on my wife. In fact i did this out of desperation, for changing my sullen and depressed mood and i was sitting alone in my office fearing about possible job loss and financial security. This i have written an elaborate letter to Mrs. Renuka. Iam the one who wrote to Mr. praveen to block the id not because of any fear but i felt myself ashamed and very embarrased. Iam not bothered to write the truth since i did not want to be portrayed as a culprit or as a thief who enter into the female domain. Yes i wanted others to notice me. But I always wanted to write in my name R.SUBBARAMAN but never got any success.I want to give my full details to this forum. You can find in any google web site my full details if you are so much interested .my full name RAMASWAMY SUBBARAMAN working in VGP Housing residing in 3 RAMANA NAGAR FIRST STREET MADAMBAKKAM CHENNAI 600126 TAMILNADU. Previously i wanted to write this but since my id is blocked and since i wanted to convey many things which i felt will be more helpful, i just hesitated. I DON'T WANT TO HAVE CONSTANT NAGGING FROM ANYBODY ON THIS ISSUE AGAIN.

 

[tks]

I want to apologize for the inconvenience caused to this forum by me. previously i had written in this forum in the name of vaithehi (My wife] and as rsubba2014. This is not for any cheap publicity , gaining favour or to cheat anybody. I was at that time in a very desperate mood having always having the fear of my job and the security of financial concerns leaving the burden on my wife. In fact i did this out of desperation, for changing my sullen and depressed mood and i was sitting alone in my office fearing about possible job loss and financial security. This i have written an elaborate letter to Mrs. Renuka. Iam the one who wrote to Mr. praveen to block the id not because of any fear but i felt myself ashamed and very embarrased. Iam not bothered to write the truth since i did not want to be portrayed as a culprit or as a thief who enter into the female domain. Yes i wanted others to notice me. But I always wanted to write in my name R.SUBBARAMAN but never got any success.I want to give my full details to this forum. You can find in any google web site my full details if you are so much interested .my full name RAMASWAMY SUBBARAMAN working in VGP Housing residing in 3 RAMANA NAGAR FIRST STREET MADAMBAKKAM CHENNAI 600126 TAMILNADU. Previously i wanted to write this but since my id is blocked and since i wanted to convey many things which i felt will be more helpful, i just hesitated. I DON'T WANT TO HAVE CONSTANT NAGGING FROM ANYBODY ON THIS ISSUE AGAIN.

Sri Subbaraman

In my book you are accepted as you are.. None of us are perfect.

Forums such as this may or may not help when one has stress in their life. In fact it is likely to cause more anxiety. I myself have opposed the content of your posts written as Veithehi. Such debates may not help someone who is under stress.

'Truth will set you free' is a biblical quote that comes to my mind.


I wish that you are past your worries now. All the best!

 

[prasad1]

Good you got it off your chest.
But really does anybody care. Most of us are anonymous on this site, unless we attend one of those meetings.
So no worries.

 

[biswa]

I still dont understand how pretending to be your wife was supposed to relieve stress. Some of the posts referring to a difficult menstrual cycle were in poor taste, IMHO. No male can even pretend to understand what females go through.

Anyway, it is good that you have come clean. I dont think anybody cares to "nag" you, but since this is an open forum, people are free to express their opinions and voice their reservations.

 

[renuka]

Dear Vignesh ji,

Dont worry..anyone of us here can be anyone else in real life.

Its also fun to have an alter ego and indeed the Vaithehi ID made lots of Maamas happy!

I remember one incident when my son aged 5 then..he was at his Carnatic music classes and he was making jokes and all students were laughing.

I was also attending the class and I felt that he was distracting the class and the teacher too was asking him to be quiet.

Upon reaching home I asked him "Don't you feel ashamed causing some much trouble in class?"

He replied "I only made everyone laugh and happy..why should I be ashamed of making anyone happy?"

Then I thought..well,he had a point..there is much more to life than just following rules.

So Vignesh ji take care and have fun..be whatever makes you happy.

 

[Raji Ram]

Not to worry Vignesh Sir! I have edited my post mentioning your name, OK?

Please feel free to write / copy - paste anything in our forum, in any name!

It is ONLY your wish!

 

[vignesh2014]

Thanks for all of your understanding and your big heart for pardoning me

 

[vignesh2014]

Yes it is very difficult to understand...these are all some alter egos developed from childhood due to stress and pressure. There are many terminology in psychology split personality, multiple personality but i don't know what i'm really? why it happened from childhood also i don't know frankly

 

[vignesh2014]

I very well knew that living a woman's life is not easy.i have experienced so many of the things. How difficult it is i know very very well. Even i wonder about my wife as some goddess who had come into my life through my fortune of my previous life since she is the one who most suffered because of me. still i feel with hate also she loves me. after seeing closely , i feel the most tough job is being a woman in this world and the sufferings they undergo is tremendous.

 

[renuka]

I very well knew that living a woman's life is not easy.i have experienced so many of the things. How difficult it is i know very very well. Even i wonder about my wife as some goddess who had come into my life through my fortune of my previous life since she is the one who most suffered because of me. still i feel with hate also she loves me. after seeing closely , i feel the most tough job is being a woman in this world and the sufferings they undergo is tremendous.

Dear Vignesh ji,

Let me assure you that women are not looking for sympathy or glorification and the life of any human being male or female can be hard or easy in cyclical phases depending on the situation.

There is no acute permanent suffering at any given time..even a Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde have their good time and bad times.

Even those with Bipolar Disorders have the Mania Euphoria days alternating with their depressive days.

God designed the human mind to face both happiness and sorrow.

Many a times we see an insane person laughing to himself.

What goes on in his mind none of us really know. Why is he laughing? Who is he laughing at?

Right now I am reading a book by Dr Brian Weiss a psychiatrist from the USA who does clinical hypnotherapy and past life regression to treat patients whose symptoms are difficult to handle.

Its an interesting read and his books are available in India with the price of Rs 375.

May be you could read it to understand how past life at times can affect our current life illnesses and fears.

Then may be you could start some meditation to alleviate some of your fears.

Kindly speak to a good doctor in your locality..directly..not online.

 

[biswa]

Renukaji,

Maybe you do not speak for all women? Definitely there are plenty of (specially Indian) women looking for sympathy and glorification. I would in fact argue that most typical women do not think like you. Outwardly they may seem like the weaker sex, but in reality they may be quite dominating or controlling.

 

[renuka]

Renukaji,

I would in fact argue that most typical women do not think like you.

Biswa Ji,


So I guess I am atypical?

God knows? May be some extra circulating mental testosterone...need to find out if something called mental testosterone exists!LOL

 

[vignesh2014]

I have fear for cockroach...my mother also have... i have more anxiety for financial stability...since lost many jobs and struggled to get jobs...therefore these experiences enshrined or embedded in my mind like a coiled wire or a kind of stimulation when some incidents happen, trigger the fear i feel...i Feel i can overcome the fears...since my wife is bold enough (she fears for lizards but i don't)..therefore we can overcome..she is not fearing any fianancial instability ..she is confident that she can earn money (Even though she is physically weak and anemic)..

 

[vignesh2014]

Even my wife never complains about anything eventhough she suffers more than me..may be a mental testosterone or some hormone which gives boldness or some kind of stimulation in the brain (some kind of electric signals in some part which triggers boldness) is there

 

[renuka]

Even my wife never complains about anything eventhough she suffers more than me..may be a mental testosterone or some hormone which gives boldness or some kind of stimulation in the brain (some kind of electric signals in some part which triggers boldness) is there

Dear Vignesh ji,

Please dont take the idea of mental testosterone seriously..I was just kidding around with Biswa ji,

BTW sometimes we feel others are suffering more than us but in reality we could be suffering more.

So the best thing now is to focus on your fears and anxiety and think of doing something to help yourself.

I am sure you must be aware the actor Robin Williams who made everyone laugh so much died becos of apparent suicide due to depression.

He did seek treatment but yet he succumbed to depression.

So dont take depression lightly..if you feel down..get help.

 

[vignesh2014]

Life in the past can't be easily predicted i feel. Even the past life regression may be an hallucination of our mind or our deep inner desires i feel. When i consulted palm leaf astrologers one person told that in previous life in srilanka who illtreated parent and your wife and children. Another person told that in Kerala , Palghat..i was a mandravadi (means who casts evil spell on others) and killed children.One another person told that you lived in boundary or next to chola nadu and you just deceived a woman who was pregnant and she killed herself. One another person who had supposed to have forevision or previous birth vision told that you lived as a muni 120 light years before and your wife is nagattha amman (i.e., serpent god) and since you went in the wrong path they burnt you (the other rishis)..what can i believe...Definitely there is previous birth connection with this birth i know.(the incidents which happened in my life i never expected and logically speaking they have no connection to my brain pattern or activity in this life)..so many unexpected things happened.It is very difficult for the human mind to comprehend, analyse previous births since it will lead to more confusions in this life. I did all pariharams. It solved some of the things and did not solve some of the things. Right now i'm now in a job for the past 1 year. we have built a house above and shifted.somehow it got stabilised but still i feel i'm not out of danger of financial insecurity.we don't have children even with treatment. I don't know actually anything about all these things. Karma theory is very complex and very difficult to analyse.

Yesterday they showed one siddha in nambinal nambungal in Z-Tamizh..he just tore paper and give to the people. they get solution from the wordings or picture from the siddha. Siddha seems to be more insane since he sometimes appear naked , sometimes blabber some unknown words, sometimes speak legible, sometimes dance, sometimes silent, sometimes in his trance mood place a leg on a woman upper part, he gives vibudi and kumkum and smears kumkum all over his body, he eats human flesh (he is called agori baba in pattukottai or nearby)..most of the people are getting their problem solved they are saying...I don't know really now there are siddhas are there. I have roamed in tiruvannamali near mountain range an inner pathway is there ...i saw the place where flying siddha meditated but that place is very narrow and for a normal person difficult to meditate but i never saw any siddha..even though in our place madambakkam, siddha temple is there. even the temple of seshdri swamigal was built from our house only by the person who resided in our place as a tenant. he also told so many things. two things i believed are...

One person who was a celibate or brahmachari who told many things about my future life were very accurate even though at that time i never believed him. Another person is from raghavendra temple who told that i will get a permanent job and one another person who told that i will get job where money will be more (this is partially true since eventhough i'm not getting good payment i'm now working in VGP now as accounts executive) even though i'm a software professional

 

[tks]

Life in the past can't be easily predicted i feel. Even the past life regression may be an hallucination of our mind or our deep inner desires i feel. When i consulted palm leaf astrologers one person told that in previous life in srilanka who illtreated parent and your wife and children. Another person told that in Kerala , Palghat..i was a mandravadi (means who casts evil spell on others) and killed children.One another person told that you lived in boundary or next to chola nadu and you just deceived a woman who was pregnant and she killed herself. One another person who had supposed to have forevision or previous birth vision told that you lived as a muni 120 light years before and your wife is nagattha amman (i.e., serpent god) and since you went in the wrong path they burnt you (the other rishis)..what can i believe...Definitely there is previous birth connection with this birth i know.(the incidents which happened in my life i never expected and logically speaking they have no connection to my brain pattern or activity in this life)..so many unexpected things happened.It is very difficult for the human mind to comprehend, analyse previous births since it will lead to more confusions in this life. I did all pariharams. It solved some of the things and did not solve some of the things. Right now i'm now in a job for the past 1 year. we have built a house above and shifted.somehow it got stabilised but still i feel i'm not out of danger of financial insecurity.we don't have children even with treatment. I don't know actually anything about all these things. Karma theory is very complex and very difficult to analyse.

Yesterday they showed one siddha in nambinal nambungal in Z-Tamizh..he just tore paper and give to the people. they get solution from the wordings or picture from the siddha. Siddha seems to be more insane since he sometimes appear naked , sometimes blabber some unknown words, sometimes speak legible, sometimes dance, sometimes silent, sometimes in his trance mood place a leg on a woman upper part, he gives vibudi and kumkum and smears kumkum all over his body, he eats human flesh (he is called agori baba in pattukottai or nearby)..most of the people are getting their problem solved they are saying...I don't know really now there are siddhas are there. I have roamed in tiruvannamali near mountain range an inner pathway is there ...i saw the place where flying siddha meditated but that place is very narrow and for a normal person difficult to meditate but i never saw any siddha..even though in our place madambakkam, siddha temple is there. even the temple of seshdri swamigal was built from our house only by the person who resided in our place as a tenant. he also told so many things. two things i believed are...

One person who was a celibate or brahmachari who told many things about my future life were very accurate even though at that time i never believed him. Another person is from raghavendra temple who told that i will get a permanent job and one another person who told that i will get job where money will be more (this is partially true since eventhough i'm not getting good payment i'm now working in VGP now as accounts executive) even though i'm a software professional

A suggestion that is easily made in USA cannot be made for someone living in India. But I will make it anyway.

I think you should seek professional help to deal with the stress you feel that may still be affecting you and therefore others in your life.

Brain is just another organ of the body. Sometimes a right medical specialist in psychiatry may be able to prescribe a medication that can make a drastic difference. Once some imbalance is restored by proper treatment then it will be easy to move on with other activities like meditation etc and learn to celebrate life.

There is a big taboo to suggest such a thing to anyone in India since it is often viewed as an insult. I hope you do not take it that way. I think the proactive thing to do is to overcome the current condition whatever it is and get back to your normal self. You will be making the life of others in your life happy as a byproduct. You are welcome to ignore my comments if you think it is not appropriate

All the best

 

[Vaagmi]

Life in the past can't be easily predicted i feel. Even the past life regression may be an hallucination of our mind or our deep inner desires i feel. When i consulted palm leaf astrologers one person told that in previous life in srilanka who illtreated parent and your wife and children. Another person told that in Kerala , Palghat..i was a mandravadi (means who casts evil spell on others) and killed children.One another person told that you lived in boundary or next to chola nadu and you just deceived a woman who was pregnant and she killed herself. One another person who had supposed to have forevision or previous birth vision told that you lived as a muni 120 light years before and your wife is nagattha amman (i.e., serpent god) and since you went in the wrong path they burnt you (the other rishis)..what can i believe...Definitely there is previous birth connection with this birth i know.(the incidents which happened in my life i never expected and logically speaking they have no connection to my brain pattern or activity in this life)..so many unexpected things happened.It is very difficult for the human mind to comprehend, analyse previous births since it will lead to more confusions in this life. I did all pariharams. It solved some of the things and did not solve some of the things. Right now i'm now in a job for the past 1 year. we have built a house above and shifted.somehow it got stabilised but still i feel i'm not out of danger of financial insecurity.we don't have children even with treatment. I don't know actually anything about all these things. Karma theory is very complex and very difficult to analyse.

Yesterday they showed one siddha in nambinal nambungal in Z-Tamizh..he just tore paper and give to the people. they get solution from the wordings or picture from the siddha. Siddha seems to be more insane since he sometimes appear naked , sometimes blabber some unknown words, sometimes speak legible, sometimes dance, sometimes silent, sometimes in his trance mood place a leg on a woman upper part, he gives vibudi and kumkum and smears kumkum all over his body, he eats human flesh (he is called agori baba in pattukottai or nearby)..most of the people are getting their problem solved they are saying...I don't know really now there are siddhas are there. I have roamed in tiruvannamali near mountain range an inner pathway is there ...i saw the place where flying siddha meditated but that place is very narrow and for a normal person difficult to meditate but i never saw any siddha..even though in our place madambakkam, siddha temple is there. even the temple of seshdri swamigal was built from our house only by the person who resided in our place as a tenant. he also told so many things. two things i believed are...

One person who was a celibate or brahmachari who told many things about my future life were very accurate even though at that time i never believed him. Another person is from raghavendra temple who told that i will get a permanent job and one another person who told that i will get job where money will be more (this is partially true since eventhough i'm not getting good payment i'm now working in VGP now as accounts executive) even though i'm a software professional

Living with minimum comforts for a decent life is not yet very difficult in Tamilnadu. It appears your anxiety levels are high about your job and finances. If it comes to the worst, you can make do with opening a small shop in your area or by home delivering tiffin/appalam/vadam etc., I asked recently a young man who is a software pro what will happen to him if all the outsourcing from US and Europe dries up for India and people like him become jobless. He cheerfully answered, "I know how to make good idlies, chutney, sambar and coffee and that knowledge is enough for me. I will open a coffee shop in US with a branch in Chennai". The other day I got a rare insight into the life which I have been living all these years and yet never had earlier. My wife had to go to Trivandrum on some work and I was left alone in Chennai for a week. She knows I do not like to eat in hotels and so had left some stock of pulickachal, Coconut thokayal podi and pickles. She had also taught me how to get rice cooked in the cooker and how to roast Lijjad papad in the microwave oven. The first day while cooking rice I found that just one handful of rice was enough for me for the whole day (oru pidi arisi). I was immensely surprised by this revelation. One handful of rice and three times that of water to cook it gave me enough food for a day. I jumped with joy and celebrated it with a song and dance because it is so simple and comes cheap too. And in a pensive moment that followed I wondered why all the struggles in life I have gone through. How many sleepless nights, how many flying bullets around you aimed at you, how many enemies-temporary and permanent, how much of palpable hostility, how much of simmering malice etc., Of course there were beautiful moments too, love and affection showered without expecting anything in return, the many fresh and beautiful sunrise in the morning, the southerly wind that enveloped me free, friends who are angels, a friendly wife the debt to whom can never be paid back even in a hundred janmas , Children who are just gifts from God etc., But if life can be so simple why all the struggles was the question for which I search for an answer still.

So dear friend, don't worry. Life in our country is still simple and cheap and can be lived happily. Get rid of your anxieties and try alternate simple solutions to earn a living if there are uncertainties which bother you so much. Best wishes.

 

[rishikesan]

Dear Mr. Vignesh. To-day is our Independence Day. We should feel free to converse with each other. I have read your writings & your inner mind. If you do not mind, since you are in Chennai & I am also here, talk on Ph (044)24806871

Rishikesan / A. Srinivasan / a Sr. Citizen

 

[prasad1]

Living with minimum comforts for a decent life is not yet very difficult in Tamilnadu. It appears your anxiety levels are high about your job and finances. If it comes to the worst, you can make do with opening a small shop in your area or by home delivering tiffin/appalam/vadam etc., I asked recently a young man who is a software pro what will happen to him if all the outsourcing from US and Europe dries up for India and people like him become jobless. He cheerfully answered, "I know how to make good idlies, chutney, sambar and coffee and that knowledge is enough for me. I will open a coffee shop in US with a branch in Chennai". The other day I got a rare insight into the life which I have been living all these years and yet never had earlier. My wife had to go to Trivandrum on some work and I was left alone in Chennai for a week. She knows I do not like to eat in hotels and so had left some stock of pulickachal, Coconut thokayal podi and pickles. She had also taught me how to get rice cooked in the cooker and how to roast Lijjad papad in the microwave oven. The first day while cooking rice I found that just one handful of rice was enough for me for the whole day (oru pidi arisi). I was immensely surprised by this revelation. One handful of rice and three times that of water to cook it gave me enough food for a day. I jumped with joy and celebrated it with a song and dance because it is so simple and comes cheap too. And in a pensive moment that followed I wondered why all the struggles in life I have gone through. How many sleepless nights, how many flying bullets around you aimed at you, how many enemies-temporary and permanent, how much of palpable hostility, how much of simmering malice etc., Of course there were beautiful moments too, love and affection showered without expecting anything in return, the many fresh and beautiful sunrise in the morning, the southerly wind that enveloped me free, friends who are angels, a friendly wife the debt to whom can never be paid back even in a hundred janmas , Children who are just gifts from God etc., But if life can be so simple why all the struggles was the question for which I search for an answer still.

So dear friend, don't worry. Life in our country is still simple and cheap and can be lived happily. Get rid of your anxieties and try alternate simple solutions to earn a living if there are uncertainties which bother you so much. Best wishes.

That was a very beautiful post.

 

[vs_ramki1950]

hi ji...dont worry!! in our life everybody has secrets...and it has to b kept close to their hearts. u had the courage to spell it openly...
hope now u r relieved..continue yr postings

 

[krish44]

Living with minimum comforts for a decent life is not yet very difficult in Tamilnadu. It appears your anxiety levels are high about your job and finances. If it comes to the worst, you can make do with opening a small shop in your area or by home delivering tiffin/appalam/vadam etc., I asked recently a young man who is a software pro what will happen to him if all the outsourcing from US and Europe dries up for India and people like him become jobless. He cheerfully answered, "I know how to make good idlies, chutney, sambar and coffee and that knowledge is enough for me. I will open a coffee shop in US with a branch in Chennai". The other day I got a rare insight into the life which I have been living all these years and yet never had earlier. My wife had to go to Trivandrum on some work and I was left alone in Chennai for a week. She knows I do not like to eat in hotels and so had left some stock of pulickachal, Coconut thokayal podi and pickles. She had also taught me how to get rice cooked in the cooker and how to roast Lijjad papad in the microwave oven. The first day while cooking rice I found that just one handful of rice was enough for me for the whole day (oru pidi arisi). I was immensely surprised by this revelation. One handful of rice and three times that of water to cook it gave me enough food for a day. I jumped with joy and celebrated it with a song and dance because it is so simple and comes cheap too. And in a pensive moment that followed I wondered why all the struggles in life I have gone through. How many sleepless nights, how many flying bullets around you aimed at you, how many enemies-temporary and permanent, how much of palpable hostility, how much of simmering malice etc., Of course there were beautiful moments too, love and affection showered without expecting anything in return, the many fresh and beautiful sunrise in the morning, the southerly wind that enveloped me free, friends who are angels, a friendly wife the debt to whom can never be paid back even in a hundred janmas , Children who are just gifts from God etc., But if life can be so simple why all the struggles was the question for which I search for an answer still.

So dear friend, don't worry. Life in our country is still simple and cheap and can be lived happily. Get rid of your anxieties and try alternate simple solutions to earn a living if there are uncertainties which bother you so much. Best wishes.

Great post vaagmiji
Living a decent life is hardly difficult .

I fully agree with the contents of your post. It requires very little to live a comfortable only if people would identify their simple needs and move to fulfill them

all it requires is reaching out to as many as possible -the rich and the poor, brainy and not so endowed ones, all manner of people and bond with them with an open mind

without expectations , good possibility that our returns will be far greater than what we put in. we can be easily be happy with decent living putting to work whatever

talents we have.

struggles IMHO are self made .If many who struggle can act overcoming their imaginary fears or getting into mental states which lead to

negative thinking and inviting criticism and conflicts with friends and relatives they can easily succeed .most uneducated and some dumb housewives who lose their

husbands make a good living with very limited capabilities and do not starve . it is mostly unfounded fears and anxieties that take their toll .

we can make a fresh start and try our hand at anything for which there is an immediate need and get some money for our work

there are so many boys from jharkand and such backward regions in india in delhi who are free lancing and making money in computer field as services guys .it is good

money. Only people who are highly educated and seen good life with lot of money and high unfulfilled aspirations get into mindset of total uselessness and self pitying

cycles. world does not owe anybody a living. those who refuse to pick themselves are damaging themselves and those around them

 

[vignesh2014]

Thanks for all your suggestions. Putting pappad, appalam and vattal and selling it is not an easy job. I tried several means of livelihood like Insurance, HR and many other things. But still didn't get any money from any of them. It is easy to say you can take tution, you can do this and that..whatever we are destined to earn only , we can earn even though we have so many talents within ourselves. I fairly lived a comfortable life in my early childhood having cook in our house to cook and also a servant maid to clean utensils and land for us to eat atleast rice food. Therefore it is not easy to find an alternative mode of living. Even i Published a book "FANTASTIC FIVE FICITONS" by Author House, U.K., but not able to earn even a single paisa from that.

 

[vignesh2014]

QUOTE=krish44;257082 Great post vaagmiji
Living a decent life is hardly difficult .I lived and always live a contented life never aspiring for any big things like car, AC or having more furnitures. I never got any loan or made any debts even though i was without job and proper income for more than 8 years.Only support is my wife and her earnings living a torture life living with my wife's relatives and i'm living alone in my house with no body to support even my

The way in which you are positioned, you will know the difficulty...i did many odd jobs without getting any money even data entry, MLM and everything i can try

I fully agree with the contents of your post. It requires very little to live a comfortable only if people would identify their simple needs and move to fulfill them.Here to help no body is now a days helping parents,friends or relatives.
I never lived in or living in luxury. I never over spend. I never put loans or get loans from anybody including parents friends or relative.

all it requires is reaching out to as many as possible -the rich and the poor, brainy and not so endowed ones, all manner of people and bond with them with an open mind

I reached through internet many people far and near and no body helped in a way that i'm able to earn a decent monthly income even data entry, online income and other ways of earning money are frauds only

without expectations , good possibility that our returns will be far greater than what we put in. we can be easily be happy with decent living putting to work whatever talents we have.

Talents is not recognised now a days. I made a very innovative article about "Impact of Western Civilization" How many people felt whatever i told is a genuine or innovative or novel one?...They simplycriticised saying that it is confusing and no body every told what is confusing in that?

struggles IMHO are self made .If many who struggle can act overcoming their imaginary fears or getting into mental states which lead to

negative thinking and inviting criticism and conflicts with friends and relatives they can easily succeed .most uneducated and some dumb housewives who lose theirhusbands make a good living with very limited capabilities and do not starve . it is mostly unfounded fears and anxieties that take their toll .


Why woman are living a decent life because man is never sympathised for his failings and more ridiculed where as a woman whatever her fault is never.

we can make a fresh start and try our hand at anything for which there is an immediate need and get some money for our work

I'm tired of these suggestions because no one is giving job or money

there are so many boys from jharkand and such backward regions in india in delhi who are free lancing and making money in computer field as services guys .it is good ( (I DONT KNOW HOW THEY ARE MAKING THROUGH FREELANCE BECAUSE I DID DATA ENTRY AND NEVER GOT ANY MONEY. I DID TEACHING IN PRIVATE INSTITUTION AND THOSE INSTITUTES NEVER PAID ME. I DID HR AND THE PEOPLE JOINED NEVER TOLD OR THE COMPANY WHO TOOK ALSO JUST FOOLED ME IN PAYING MONEY)

money. Only people who are highly educated and seen good life with lot of money and high unfulfilled aspirations get into mindset of total uselessness and self pitying

TRUE TO SAY I CAME FROM A SMALL BACKGROUND WITH MY B.SC.,PGDCA and earned first only a little money. I went to delhi ..before that also i struggled hard to get jobs because often the technology will become obsolete and got my job in AS400 and started earning good.My father never gave me any concession by way of giving money (i.e CAPITATION FEE TO JOIN B.E.,)

cycles. world does not owe anybody a living. those who refuse to pick themselves are damaging themselves and those around them ( I NEVER DAMAGED ANY BODY, WITH MY SUGGESTIONS MANY GOT PROFITED OR BENEFITED ONLY)

 

[vignesh2014]

Life is not so easy living alone in my house with no job or income and living without monthly income for more than 8 years with only wife to support and living with your in-laws near by