Thai Amavasya (தை அமாவாசை) is a special day for pitru tharpanam and ancestor offerings. It’s a solemn and sacred occasion. So, lunch on this day is usually simple, sattvic (pure), and without garlic and onion.
Since the focus is on tharpanam and not celebration, the meal should be more like what we prepare for Shraddham or Amavasya thaligai — humble but complete.
Here’s the typical menu many Tamil Brahmin households follow:
Cooked Rice (Sadham)
Paruppu (Cooked Toor Dal) with a drop of ghee
Sambar (no onion, no garlic) — made with vegetables like pumpkin, ash gourd, or drumstick
Kootu — made with vegetables like chow chow, cabbage, or ash gourd and moong dal
Rasam — Jeeragam milagu rasam or paruppu rasam
Kari (Dry curry) — typically with yam (senai), raw banana (vazhakkai), or potato, but always without onion or garlic
Aviyal — optional, again, made without onion or garlic
Appalam / Vadam
Pickle (small quantity)
Curd
Payasam — usually made with jaggery, like paruppu payasam or aval payasam
Some families also prepare koottu curry or beans usili if it’s not a tharpanam day for them specifically but just observing Thai Amavasya.
If tharpanam is performed in the morning, food should only be taken after the rituals are over. And ideally, no tiffin or coffee in the morning before the shraddham thaligai is offered.
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