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Suicide-A Video

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.........It dissects the source of happiness! But the grass is always green on the other side! How do we stop this comparison??
Dear Ganesh,

Parents should teach the children to excel in education and should not force them to get first rank all the time.

Kids have the tendency to own whatever they see but parent should teach them to be happy with what they possess.

If the comparing attitude starts from childhood, as grownups they would find it a bit hard to be contented. :sad:
 
Just want to share the attitude of parents. :)

I have started 'pAttu class' for my 5 year old first granddaughter and her classmate. Only two week are over

and the mom of her classmate tells me, 'Aunty! Please prepare them to give a stage program before you leave'!

I was reminded of the anecdote that my music Guru Prof. S. Ramanathan Sir shared with us: A person wanted

to learn Carnatic music and started learning right from 'saraLi varisai'. After a month, he seeked the blessings

of his guru, saying, 'Bless me Sir! I am about to start a music school because I have finished 'saraLi varisai!'
Guru :faint: ed!!
 
hi

this comparison attitude starts from KOVIL SUNDAL PRASADAM from childhood....பக்கத்து வீட்டு பையனுக்கு நெறைய சுண்டல் கெடச்சது.....ஏன அவன் line கட் அடிச்சு வாங்கினான்....

ஆனால் நீயோ line லே proper இருந்து சுண்டலை கோட்டை விட்டாய் ....from child we teach comparison with indiscipline...

cutting the lines/pushing others to get self satisfaction...
 
I will be very careful about prescribing such videos (the OP one) because the person who is at his/her wits end will have a strange mindset which will be very different from what is a normal mindset. Normally we will listen to a pro and con dialogue patiently before weighing them to take a decision. But for a person who has half made up his/her mind to cross the line, every argument (however cooked up it may be or however cleverly decked up to look like that) may further firmly prod him/her to go his/her chosen way and complete the process they have started. They may selectively take in what is offered.

Counselling against suicide needs personal approach and not a cinema approach as offered here. It can be dangerous.
 
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