kindly see in the fourth page in this thread cradle ceremony . you will have some details there about aayushya homam. aayushya homam must be celebrated in the child"s father"s house. kindly inform in advance to the child"s mother|"s parents in advance. maternal grand father of the child will bring some gifts for the child with thaampoolam, fruits, and flowers. all expenses must be borned by the paternal grand father of the child.