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Parents against marriage

Mani_Chennai

Active member
Many non brahmin girls unwittingly get into brahmin families due to 'love marriage: and undergo lot of suffering due to their indifference and subtle discrimination.The puritanical ways hurt all entering their families thru marriage to their kit and kin. Staying away from them is the best option for NB girls
When foreign girls get maaried , they too go thorugh adjustments. We had been until recnetly for legal reasons, patriarchical society. Thus, it is always girls who have to adjust. But professionals slowly get out of this troubles and mutual understanding , respect and love cement enetually the differences.
 

Mani_Chennai

Active member
Many non brahmin girls unwittingly get into brahmin families due to 'love marriage: and undergo lot of suffering due to their indifference and subtle discrimination.The puritanical ways hurt all entering their families thru marriage to their kit and kin. Staying away from them is the best option for NB girls
If they are well educated professionals the problems are o sort out. I met an American Nurse- very beautiful and intelligent told me that I did not have a chance to marry an Indian Brahman Doctor earning 400,000 $ per annul. He is loving and caring and I have completely changed. I am a vegetarian, wear Sari, put on Kumkumam and my aviyal is well appreciated by his Indian doctor friends. If the people really love, all the difficulties can be slowly handled. The question is, which type of non B girls have trouble in adapting to Brahman way of life (which is almost nothing now in big cities when both are professionals). Adjusting for food preparation takes time and patience.
 

sravna

Well-known member
No difference is a problem if there is real love. Without love any little difference gets magnified. So there is a problem anyway because true love is very rare these days.
 

sravna

Well-known member
A reining in influence of elders is required in general for the youngsters. The latter very often get carried away especially in matters of love. So it is irresponsible to advice the youngsters to ignore the elders and do what they feel is right.
 
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