With increased education and emergence of working girls in metros there is a drift away from conventional arranged
marriages.
Most girls would like to date first , get into a relationship and then opt to get parental approval for marriage if the
relationship works out. Many relationships just go sour and both girl and boy discover that it may not work out and break up.
Many do not think of parental approval at relationship stage but wake up when they want to get married . Suddenly boy or
girl find getting approval of parents is an uphill task and take recourse to marriage without approval of either of boys" or
girl's parents. Others simply break up citing non approval of parents as the reason for break up.
Most move on with some scars and memories of broken relationships.
What is most interesting about indian girls is that they remain utmost loyal to boys they ultimately marry. Marriage is still
considered a serious bond. I do not know if I am correct in saying this.girls try their level best to adjust to changed
circumstances after marriage and try to cope with it.Most remain in arranged marriages however painful it is and carry on.
After giving birth to a child or two , they transfer their attention to child rearing putting away their unpleasant post
marriage experiences in arranged marriage.Not many break up from arranged marriage fearing divorce and pressure of
society at large.For girls is there any love left in arranged marriage? Perhaps love for financial security keeps marriage
afloat in many cases.Also the respect a married women get in society they consider seriously and it helps them stay
married.
marriages.
Most girls would like to date first , get into a relationship and then opt to get parental approval for marriage if the
relationship works out. Many relationships just go sour and both girl and boy discover that it may not work out and break up.
Many do not think of parental approval at relationship stage but wake up when they want to get married . Suddenly boy or
girl find getting approval of parents is an uphill task and take recourse to marriage without approval of either of boys" or
girl's parents. Others simply break up citing non approval of parents as the reason for break up.
Most move on with some scars and memories of broken relationships.
What is most interesting about indian girls is that they remain utmost loyal to boys they ultimately marry. Marriage is still
considered a serious bond. I do not know if I am correct in saying this.girls try their level best to adjust to changed
circumstances after marriage and try to cope with it.Most remain in arranged marriages however painful it is and carry on.
After giving birth to a child or two , they transfer their attention to child rearing putting away their unpleasant post
marriage experiences in arranged marriage.Not many break up from arranged marriage fearing divorce and pressure of
society at large.For girls is there any love left in arranged marriage? Perhaps love for financial security keeps marriage
afloat in many cases.Also the respect a married women get in society they consider seriously and it helps them stay
married.
