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Marriage and Horoscope matching

gunse64

Member
Sir, Every one knows GOD is the ultimate game changer. But as human being many people depend on good time , bad time etc.,and often seek Astrologers advise for marriage of son/daughter. The Astrologers opinion vary place to place. Bride side say horoscope is matching by their Astrologer but Groom side say it is not matching as per their Astrologer. Different Methods are used by them. As a common man particularly in marriage matching difficult to take decision. Can this learned group to give suggestion to come over this confusion.
 

a-TB

Well-known member
Sir, Every one knows GOD is the ultimate game changer. But as human being many people depend on good time , bad time etc.,and often seek Astrologers advise for marriage of son/daughter. The Astrologers opinion vary place to place. Bride side say horoscope is matching by their Astrologer but Groom side say it is not matching as per their Astrologer. Different Methods are used by them. As a common man particularly in marriage matching difficult to take decision. Can this learned group to give suggestion to come over this confusion.

We have a few people knowledgeable about Astrology.

Most in this group including myself is not so learned,

Let God be the ultimate game changer

Why does anyone want to pay attention to astrology? It is not science

Also if Astrologers can predict future why do they charge money for consultation. They charge because they are uncertain of their own future.
 

krish44

Well-known member
If anyone wants to reject a matrimonial match, they cite horoscope mismatch as the reason'

It is convenient and least hurting .

Best is throw horoscope away and settle a match if otherwise OK.

Also leave horoscope matching to the party which believes in doing so.

One has to see so many parameters such as age, edu,career ,location, family background etc for arranged

marriages .

No sense in complicating further with horoscope and stars match etc.
 

Janaki Jambunathan

Well-known member
If anyone wants to reject a matrimonial match, they cite horoscope mismatch as the reason'

It is convenient and least hurting . (#4)

It is convenient for one party but could be atrocious - The other party is humiliated !

I met the parents of a girl last week in a wedding reception . They introduced their charming daughter . The Girl is MBBS .D.Ch. DNB and has finished MRCP part 1 as well.Father retired officer SBI. Mother works in New India Assurance .The girl is really smart. She is 31 and the parents are anxious to get her married . The are upset as their proposal are rejected on horoscope consideration . Her birth star is ஆயில்யம் - This is their experience. -

They had phone call lost month from an old proposal rejected because of ஆயில்யம் trying to reive the proposal! But rightly rejected by the Girls parent. Reason that boy was married and divorced - and trying to get married again!

I could feel their pain and reassured them they will find a suitable match - that my 1st D in L is ஆயில்யம்.!
 

tbs

Well-known member
hi

horoscope matching a personal choice of family members......if there is no jatakam...some do POO POTTU

matching....no all matching horoscopes are doing good or bad...its just self satisfaction...many marriages

are stopped due to horoscope matching....i studied astrology in theory....i never do in practical....so horoscopes/

jaatakam/star matchings going down....now gals are scarcity....inter caste/inter religion marriages are

flourishing.....
 

VISWANATHARAJU

New member
Hi,
No one likes uncertainty. So the astrology gives some hope to the weak hearted people to go ahead in life. Other than this fact, astrological predictions / horoscope matching etc. are doing nothing but wasting money, time and causing pain to many.
 
Here is an example oof horoscope matching even both sides agreed after marriage boy child but groom met with accident.Girl highly qualified from US now employed in a good post in Us.Now what to do girl is young parents worried on future.
 
We do not have the original astrology as told by our ancient Rishis and it has undergone many changes that the predictions are incorrect now. That is the reason no two astrologers agree. There are errors starting from casting of horoscope to interpretation of results. So it is not a reliable tool for deciding a marriage. Many marriages have failed with good horoscope match and many have been successful without horoscope match. This proves the the reality that horoscope matching does not guarantee anything. Why then people cling to horoscope match ? It is because they are so sentimental they refuse to believe reality of the situation.There is a psychology behind this. If the marriage fails without seeing horoscope match they feel guilty. People want to safe guard themselves from the blame without knowing that the failure or success of marriage is controlled by the law of karma.
 

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