JR
Hare Krishna
We often hear the term, "Do not judge others", but coming to practicality we all do it all the time. The human psyche is wired to ward off unnecessary danger and humiliation from it, and thus if we perceive personalities capable of harming us in any way, we 'judge'' that person as unsuitable for safe company and stay away from them. Judging is a comparative measure, we compare ourselves, our mentors, friends, good influences in various positions in life with those newcomers and outsiders and come to a 'judgement' of the new person's mental-makeup and deem him/her as falling into a particular 'stereotype' and start interacting with the person according to our understanding of the stereotype.
Someone I know told me once, "Judgmentality is a survival reality! Without that we risk being fooled, deceived, way-laid and so the survival instinct holds true even on the spiritual, new-age path!".
To me, judgementality is an outcome of the dualistic mind. As long as the mind holds on to notions of duality, "Good, bad", "Dumb, Smart", "High status, Low status" and so forth, we will really do judging of others and categorize them, although we might say we do not do that.
Any comments, ideas?
Someone I know told me once, "Judgmentality is a survival reality! Without that we risk being fooled, deceived, way-laid and so the survival instinct holds true even on the spiritual, new-age path!".
To me, judgementality is an outcome of the dualistic mind. As long as the mind holds on to notions of duality, "Good, bad", "Dumb, Smart", "High status, Low status" and so forth, we will really do judging of others and categorize them, although we might say we do not do that.
Any comments, ideas?