I understand your view point. positioning of seniors depends on cold logic Basically who wants seniors services and marginal finance for their stability and security. normally it is better for seniors not to live with a son who is financially stable and has grown up children . they have no need for seniors as they are not vulnerable .so there is every possibility that seniors will get neglected if they join such a son for living their twilight yearsDear Krish Sir,
When I meant use the heart to decide where you want to stay, I meant if there are 2 sons go the place where you are wanted and loved..So as per heart you may like to live with the younger one though mind says that you should live with the elder one..Hope I have explained myself!
any decision made on sentiment or protocol leads to misery.