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Offering condolences

DUKKam vijarikka= On the first day before the dead body leaves the house and on the tenth day you can go. on monday, wednesday and saturday you should not go even after the tenth day;you can go on even days except these three days; you should not go on odd days.you should not take food or water coffee etc. SAME RULE APPLIES FOR
TELEPHONE CONVERSATION ALSO.
 
DUKKam vijarikka= On the first day before the dead body leaves the house and on the tenth day you can go. on monday, wednesday and saturday you should not go even after the tenth day;you can go on even days except these three days; you should not go on odd days.you should not take food or water coffee etc. SAME RULE APPLIES FOR
TELEPHONE CONVERSATION ALSO.
Hello , we are in united states . We accidently called our close family member to convey condolence on our monday night and their tursday morning. Is there any parigaaram for that ?
 
Can you please elaborate sir?
Since you have called on Monday night that Tuesday morning of India it is ok and that is why he says no பரிகாரம் is needed. As per your perception that you have called on Monday May be wrong and that is why you asked for பரிகாரம். But when you call on Tuesday morning of US it may be evening of India which may not also not permissible. So as he said you can be cool. This is applicable in other days too that is Thursday Saturday and Sunday as the time difference is there you can call only in the previous evenings only. When cross borders you cannot follow exactly.
 
I do understand tes
DUKKam vijarikka= On the first day before the dead body leaves the house and on the tenth day you can go. on monday, wednesday and saturday you should not go even after the tenth day;you can go on even days except these three days; you should not go on odd days.you should not take food or water coffee etc. SAME RULE APPLIES FOR
TELEPHONE CONVERSATION ALSO.
Dear Sir,
I didnt know about this rules.

Here we go any day we like and convey condolence on any day.

May I know what is the reason behind this rules that we cant go on certain days and cant offer condolences on certain days?

I hope you would kindly shed some light so that the reasons could be understood.
 
Since you have called on Monday night that Tuesday morning of India it is ok and that is why he says no பரிகாரம் is needed. As per your perception that you have called on Monday May be wrong and that is why you asked for பரிகாரம். But when you call on Tuesday morning of US it may be evening of India which may not also not permissible. So as he said you can be cool. This is applicable in other days too that is Thursday Saturday and Sunday as the time difference is there you can call only in the previous evenings only. When cross borders you cannot follow exactly.
Thank you so much
 
DUKKam vijarikka= On the first day before the dead body leaves the house and on the tenth day you can go. on monday, wednesday and saturday you should not go even after the tenth day;you can go on even days except these three days; you should not go on odd days.you should not take food or water coffee etc. SAME RULE APPLIES FOR
TELEPHONE CONVERSATION ALSO.
Thanks for the details maama !if the 10th day falls on Wednesday and Saturday is the 13th day (shubham) then can we visit on Wed. Or Saturday?
 

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