Brahmin widowers are having a tough time finding matches -widows or divorced.If they happen to have a child then they are doomed.
No brahmin girl would like to bring up the child .
Nor they would like to support mother/father of the widower.
As it is brahmin girls are choosy about their mates.What is the way out for these widowers?
I find other communities little more reasonable.
Recently after looking for a match for a brahmin widower around 38years, found a well educated employed girl 30plus -divorced within a month of marriage-
innocent divorcee who offered to marry him and accept his child and mother.
Do brahmin girls accept the new realities of changed society and stop setting wild terms for a life time relationship?
Brahmin boys are increasingly looking to other communities for matches.
They are far more liberal and open minded.
I have started feeling that being a boy with brahmin tag is an albatros around his neck .
Similarly another brahmin boy -son of a friend ended up with a broken engagement with a brahmin girl
.A NB girl an old classmate of the boy very well off simply married him.
All these come as a relief for brahmin boys/men who are seeing the patriarchal order getting crumbled around them and these mummy's boys are stuck without
matches.
We have to thank a social reformer who changed the order in tamilnadu and new age feminists who find brahmin girls as dedicated followers.
Brahmin males have to think of foreign countries where caste tags do not matter much.There is no future for them in tamilnadu
No brahmin girl would like to bring up the child .
Nor they would like to support mother/father of the widower.
As it is brahmin girls are choosy about their mates.What is the way out for these widowers?
I find other communities little more reasonable.
Recently after looking for a match for a brahmin widower around 38years, found a well educated employed girl 30plus -divorced within a month of marriage-
innocent divorcee who offered to marry him and accept his child and mother.
Do brahmin girls accept the new realities of changed society and stop setting wild terms for a life time relationship?
Brahmin boys are increasingly looking to other communities for matches.
They are far more liberal and open minded.
I have started feeling that being a boy with brahmin tag is an albatros around his neck .
Similarly another brahmin boy -son of a friend ended up with a broken engagement with a brahmin girl
.A NB girl an old classmate of the boy very well off simply married him.
All these come as a relief for brahmin boys/men who are seeing the patriarchal order getting crumbled around them and these mummy's boys are stuck without
matches.
We have to thank a social reformer who changed the order in tamilnadu and new age feminists who find brahmin girls as dedicated followers.
Brahmin males have to think of foreign countries where caste tags do not matter much.There is no future for them in tamilnadu
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