Which god to pray for gaining back the confidence? I'm losing my confidence... I felt I must go spiritual way gain my confidence. Which God I should Worship for gaining my confidence... Or any shlokas. Please help me. :help:
Dear Sir..
Confidence is familiarity.
Its an acquired ability due to priming of the brain/mind to a particular situation.
For eg..most of us can drive a car.
We learnt how to drive..we will never feel we dont feel confident to drive if everything else remains the same.
We only lose confidence to drive if we had some disability for eg a stroke then after recovery we might feel scared to drive again till we try.
Likewise..you must be losing confidence in just some very specific situations.
It cant be everything.
If its everything then you could be having some form of depression.
No one is confident in everything.
In fact only an irresponsible person or a foolish person who feel confident 24/ 7.
A person with a functioning good IQ would always be watchful and even lie low from being over confident to prevent gross blunders.
Now coming to your question..Which God to pray too.
Seems to be me you are projecting this feeling of lack of confidence even on God.
What is the matter with your current mode of worship?
Not feeling confident of the current devata or mantra?
This shows we are seeking something external to solve the problem.
Confidence is not something that can be got from.a mantra or tantra or any spirituality ..its only the mind that can feel confident that too to prior exposure.
For eg if I am driving in a familiar region I feel confident..but if its an unfamiliar region..i feel a little scared.
So would I worry about this?
No..cos its normal.
So just do this simple exercise..take a paper and pen and write down the activities that you are confident of handling and the activities you are not confident off.
Then write down why you feel confident for some and not confident for some.
See what you can rectify..if you cant handle some situations...just let it go.
Focus on what you handle well.