Sir, Namaskaram
We are 3 brothers & 1 sister. All married and well settled. I am the 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] son of the family. My father passed away, when I was in college 1986. From that time on wards, my elder brother was doing Shraddha (Devasam) every year at home till my mother’s death 2015.
My mother’s first year Shraddha (devasam) was supposed to done at home, as suggested by sastrigal. So that all grandchildrens’ can attend. My elder suddenly changed the plan and did Shraddha (Devasam) at kasi. When I asked for the reason, he just ignore me and none of the grandchildrens’ could attend Shraddha (devasam), since it was performed at kasi. He also changed the sastrigal.
This year, he is planning to do at madam, now also when i asked, he just shouted ( you want to attend or not ) and ignored without explanation, but my wish , I wanted to be performed at home, so that all family members along with their childrens can get the blessings of my mother.
Being 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] son, I am helpless and respectless .Tell me anything I can do from my side.
Any Suggestions Please..
Faithfully
Shekar Balasubramanian
We are 3 brothers & 1 sister. All married and well settled. I am the 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] son of the family. My father passed away, when I was in college 1986. From that time on wards, my elder brother was doing Shraddha (Devasam) every year at home till my mother’s death 2015.
My mother’s first year Shraddha (devasam) was supposed to done at home, as suggested by sastrigal. So that all grandchildrens’ can attend. My elder suddenly changed the plan and did Shraddha (Devasam) at kasi. When I asked for the reason, he just ignore me and none of the grandchildrens’ could attend Shraddha (devasam), since it was performed at kasi. He also changed the sastrigal.
This year, he is planning to do at madam, now also when i asked, he just shouted ( you want to attend or not ) and ignored without explanation, but my wish , I wanted to be performed at home, so that all family members along with their childrens can get the blessings of my mother.
Being 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] son, I am helpless and respectless .Tell me anything I can do from my side.
Any Suggestions Please..
Faithfully
Shekar Balasubramanian