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Widows worldwide robbed, enslaved, raped and accused of witchcraft

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Millions of widows around the world are left destitute after being robbed of their inheritance, while others are enslaved by their in-laws, accused of witchcraft or forced to undergo abusive sexual rituals, research shows. The crushing poverty and persecution faced by widows worldwide is outlined in a major report on widowhood which will be presented to U.N. Secretary General Ban Ki-moon on Friday.
"Widows have been suffering in silence for centuries, and yet nobody - no government, not even the U.N. - has ever attended to this problem," said Lord Raj Loomba, a campaigner on widowhood, who will discuss the issue with Ban in New York.
There are more than 258 million widows worldwide with one in seven living on less than $1 a day, according to the World Widows Report produced by the Loomba Foundation which works to empower widows.
Newly-widowed women in many developing countries are often plunged into destitution after being disinherited, stripped of property and evicted by their in-laws, sometimes losing their children.
Those who remain reliant on their in-laws are often treated like slaves, abused physically, psychologically and sexually, Loomba said.
The deprivation faced by widows is even more devastating because of the impact on their children who may be pulled out of school and forced into child labor or early marriage.
Loomba said the new U.N. global development goals, known as the SDGs, agreed this year would never be met without addressing the problems endured by widows.
"We have got to link this issue to the SDGs. The first goal is the elimination of poverty and the last goal is to leave no one behind - so I want to make sure widows are not left behind," said Loomba, a member of the House of Lords, Britain's upper chamber of parliament.

The SDGs also include ending all discrimination and violence against women and girls, and commitments regarding women's access to property and inheritance.
Estimates suggest the number of widows has risen 9 percent since 2010, partly because of conflicts in the Middle East, the report said.
Child marriage is another cause of early widowhood.
Many girls are left prematurely widowed after being married off to much older men. Young widows who cannot support their children are in turn more likely to marry off their daughters early, perpetuating the cycle.
Two of the most harmful traditional practices are "widow cleansing" and "widow inheritance", the report says. Both fuel the spread of AIDS, Ebola and other diseases.
Cleansing rituals in Sub-Saharan Africa may require a new widow to drink the water used to wash her husband's corpse or to have sex with his brother or a stranger to exorcise her husband's spirit.
Widows may also be "inherited" by their husband's brother as a first or additional wife - a common tradition in parts of Africa, South Asia and the Middle East.
Loomba said superstitions surrounding widowhood mean they are often blamed for their husband's death and accused of witchcraft.
Older widows living alone are particularly vulnerable to witchcraft accusations, putting them at risk of violence and even murder.
Beliefs that widows bring bad luck can lead to their exclusion from society, limiting their prospects for employment and entrenching poverty.
(Editing by Katie Nguyen; Please credit the Thomson Reuters Foundation, the charitable arm of Thomson Reuters, that covers humanitarian news, women's rights, trafficking, corruption and climate change. Visit www.trust.org)
http://news.yahoo.com/widows-worldwide-robbed-enslaved-raped-accused-witchcraft-075548576.html
 
Millions of widows around the world are left destitute after being robbed of their inheritance, while others are enslaved by their in-laws, accused of witchcraft or forced to undergo abusive sexual rituals, research shows. The crushing poverty and persecution faced by widows worldwide is outlined in a major report on widowhood which will be presented to U.N. Secretary General Ban Ki-moon on Friday.
"Widows have been suffering in silence for centuries, and yet nobody - no government, not even the U.N. - has ever attended to this problem," said Lord Raj Loomba, a campaigner on widowhood, who will discuss the issue with Ban in New York.
There are more than 258 million widows worldwide with one in seven living on less than $1 a day, according to the World Widows Report produced by the Loomba Foundation which works to empower widows.
Newly-widowed women in many developing countries are often plunged into destitution after being disinherited, stripped of property and evicted by their in-laws, sometimes losing their children.
Those who remain reliant on their in-laws are often treated like slaves, abused physically, psychologically and sexually, Loomba said.
The deprivation faced by widows is even more devastating because of the impact on their children who may be pulled out of school and forced into child labor or early marriage.
Loomba said the new U.N. global development goals, known as the SDGs, agreed this year would never be met without addressing the problems endured by widows.
"We have got to link this issue to the SDGs. The first goal is the elimination of poverty and the last goal is to leave no one behind - so I want to make sure widows are not left behind," said Loomba, a member of the House of Lords, Britain's upper chamber of parliament.

The SDGs also include ending all discrimination and violence against women and girls, and commitments regarding women's access to property and inheritance.
Estimates suggest the number of widows has risen 9 percent since 2010, partly because of conflicts in the Middle East, the report said.
Child marriage is another cause of early widowhood.
Many girls are left prematurely widowed after being married off to much older men. Young widows who cannot support their children are in turn more likely to marry off their daughters early, perpetuating the cycle.
Two of the most harmful traditional practices are "widow cleansing" and "widow inheritance", the report says. Both fuel the spread of AIDS, Ebola and other diseases.
Cleansing rituals in Sub-Saharan Africa may require a new widow to drink the water used to wash her husband's corpse or to have sex with his brother or a stranger to exorcise her husband's spirit.
Widows may also be "inherited" by their husband's brother as a first or additional wife - a common tradition in parts of Africa, South Asia and the Middle East.
Loomba said superstitions surrounding widowhood mean they are often blamed for their husband's death and accused of witchcraft.
Older widows living alone are particularly vulnerable to witchcraft accusations, putting them at risk of violence and even murder.

Widows may also be "inherited" by their husband's brother as a first or additional wife - a common tradition in
Beliefs that widows bring bad luck can lead to their exclusion from society, limiting their prospects for employment and entrenching poverty.
(Editing by Katie Nguyen; Please credit the Thomson Reuters Foundation, the charitable arm of Thomson Reuters, that covers humanitarian news, women's rights, trafficking, corruption and climate change. Visit www.trust.org)
http://news.yahoo.com/widows-worldwide-robbed-enslaved-raped-accused-witchcraft-075548576.html

In those days in Tamil Brahmins , young widows were compelled...... to tonsure their head, wear "narmadi" saris of 9 yards................... no " poo (flower) & pottu" etc.

Those days have gone. Now a days <35 years TB widows of are getting married easily.

Because of scarcity of brides in Tamil Brahmin, many Ambis & their families easily compromise their mind for widow marriages.
Widows may also be "inherited" by their husband's brother as a first or additional wife - a common tradition in India also............ it is in vogue in Muslim community.
 
Like normal TB girls, widows from TB community are also setting harsh terms for remarriage if they are educated and working.

Once having gone thru marriage they know what type of men to avoid.

These sob stories regarding women widows do not apply to tamil brahmin educated working widows who are more selective than other girls.

Mine is the voice of experience.

I am trying to get a tamil brahmin widower married without success for last few months.

Widowed women run their families better than men who die.

I know many who put order into their families and rule with an iron hand.

With widow pensions adding to their kitty , many have decent money stashed away and some go on international all women group holidays and live it up without

nuisance value of an accompanying male.

I used to know a sumangali who was jealous of a widow because she was not free like the widow to enjoy living because she had a man to support.

World has changed for widows. Similarly divorced women are also giving a sigh of relief after getting rid of their unreasonable husbands.

There is no need to post sob stories regarding widows.

There are as many sobbing married women as widows in terms of percentages I guess.
 
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[h=1]Bihar DM dispels superstitions by eating meal cooked by widow, gets her job back[/h]

A widow, who was barred by local villagers from cooking and serving mid-day meals in a government school in Bihar's Gopalganj, has been reinstated as a result of the heroic actions of the DM.

The woman, Sunita Kanwar, started facing problems when the local villagers questioned her character and raised objections against her cooking, as they felt that her cooking for children was a bad omen. According to media reports, Sunita said that she was being targeted because she was a widow.

After months of facing this ordeal, Sunita approached Rahul Kumar, the District Magistrate of Gopalganj, who then vowed to reinstate her.
Kumar not only got her job back and he also helped dispel the superstitions by eating a meal prepared by Sunita, in front of the entire village. Following this, the villagers quickly withdrew their protests.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...ow-gets-her-job-back/articleshow/50247738.cms
 
Bihar DM dispels superstitions by eating meal cooked by widow, gets her job back



A widow, who was barred by local villagers from cooking and serving mid-day meals in a government school in Bihar's Gopalganj, has been reinstated as a result of the heroic actions of the DM.

The woman, Sunita Kanwar, started facing problems when the local villagers questioned her character and raised objections against her cooking, as they felt that her cooking for children was a bad omen. According to media reports, Sunita said that she was being targeted because she was a widow.

After months of facing this ordeal, Sunita approached Rahul Kumar, the District Magistrate of Gopalganj, who then vowed to reinstate her.
Kumar not only got her job back and he also helped dispel the superstitions by eating a meal prepared by Sunita, in front of the entire village. Following this, the villagers quickly withdrew their protests.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...ow-gets-her-job-back/articleshow/50247738.cms
In Tamilnadu, we believe, there is no such taboo.
Tamilnadu is some what ..............a more progressive state.
Credit for this progression of the society in Tamilnadu, goes to many revolutionaries right from Bharathi.
 
In Tamilnadu, we believe, there is no such taboo.
Tamilnadu is some what ..............a more progressive state.
Credit for this progression of the society in Tamilnadu, goes to many revolutionaries right from Bharathi.
Are you sure, and you are not biased!!!!!!!!!!
Kanchi Shankaracharya still refuses to give water to widows, so leave alone the common folks.
 
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