Hi Senior Members
Namaskaram to all. I am a new member in this group. I would like to get suggestions and opinions from elders in this group for a thing which is going in my heart for almost 2 years.
I am a Tamil Brahmin (Iyer) woman married to a Kannada Brahmin (Madhwa). I am following all festivals as per Madhwa custom after my marriage happily as I understand after marriage a woman should adhere to the customs followed in the husband family and take it forward.
However being born and brought in a traditional Tamil Brahmin family, I would seek your suggestion in performing Karadayan Nombu. This Nombu is not available in my husband's side custom. I am aware of the significance of this nombu and I would like to do it.
I was not allowed to do it after my marriage as it is not their in their custom and I have not done it for 2 years now. Hence using this forum to seek suggestions and advise from elders if I can do this nombu. Thanks.
Namaskaram to all. I am a new member in this group. I would like to get suggestions and opinions from elders in this group for a thing which is going in my heart for almost 2 years.
I am a Tamil Brahmin (Iyer) woman married to a Kannada Brahmin (Madhwa). I am following all festivals as per Madhwa custom after my marriage happily as I understand after marriage a woman should adhere to the customs followed in the husband family and take it forward.
However being born and brought in a traditional Tamil Brahmin family, I would seek your suggestion in performing Karadayan Nombu. This Nombu is not available in my husband's side custom. I am aware of the significance of this nombu and I would like to do it.
I was not allowed to do it after my marriage as it is not their in their custom and I have not done it for 2 years now. Hence using this forum to seek suggestions and advise from elders if I can do this nombu. Thanks.