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marriage disolution

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bhagavaney,

what a query. i think the husband has to move on and marry if he finds a suitable person.

not to worry about seven life cycles. they will sort out by themselves, each of them.
 
shango said:
if one have been married in vedic tradition and wife have been unfaithful and during husband absence she have put onother man in his house and bed , is marriage in gods eye terminated , or still married for 7 life times , can husband remarry ?
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This is probably the most poignant query I have seen in this forum.

The basic foundation of any decent marriage is trust. Love comes only next, IMO. When the trust is smashed so thoughtlessly, no person could possibly be required to endure.

Whatever reality may be, we can be certain of only this life. Make the most of it. You are not required to suffer cheaters. Damn those who say otherwise.

Cheers!
 
shango said:
if one have been married in vedic tradition and wife have been unfaithful and during husband absence she have put onother man in his house and bed , is marriage in gods eye terminated , or still married for 7 life times , can husband remarry ?
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shango

there are needs namely biological.is it fair,to deprive human biological needs.is it possible for anyone to deprive the needs of stomach as an organ?

faithful or unfaithful,is a state of mind.mentally i keep lusting over millions of women everyday,so am i held accountable by some goddamned moral police?even in a marriage,if one of the spouse,has a lesser appetite in sex,is it fair to ration one's hunger?

if the husband has found out,his wife slept with another man,he must first find out the reason?then decide the course of action.

women for centuries have been tolerating men's infidelity rather like a curse on them.now,one in a trillion amongst women does what most men do,she is promptly divorced,bravo men folks :roll:
 
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shango said:
if one have been married in vedic tradition and wife have been unfaithful and during husband absence she have put onother man in his house and bed , is marriage in gods eye terminated , or still married for 7 life times , can husband remarry ?
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Dear Sir,

Legally, the husband can obtain a divorce if he is able to convince the court regarding the infidelity on the part of the wife, and thereafter he can marry another woman or, he may remarry the ex-wife if on reconsideration both parties agree for such a course of action. That is the position in India.

But you mention "married for 7 life times". That takes the question to the religious/esoteric level. No one will be able to say whether a marriage conducted according to the vedic tradition will be binding for 7 life times. To the best of my knowledge there is no vedic statement to support such a conclusion. The only benediction uttered during the ceremony is for a life of one hundred years for the couple. If the husband values being together with his wife, he can continue till the end despite her infidelity. :angel:
 
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