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i am non Brahmin...i am the devotee of a brahimin swamiji...i became his devotee because...whatever i get struggles in my life...i will run and touch his feet and get his ashirvatham...he will pray for me...my problems will vanish...he is like a god for me...he told that if i eat non vegetarian foods then he don't know...myself and my family(my husband and kid) not eating eggs or non vegetarian foods...but neighbour people...some relatives telling that in government itself they are providing eggs to small children but i am not giving eggs for my child...some people asking me to give fish...but till now i am not giving anything other than vegetarian foods...everybody confusing me...kindly guide me... definitely myself and my husband will live as pure vegeterians only because we are swamijis devotees....but what can i feed to my child? kindly guide me...if you guide me veg. foods..then please tell me...what foods i ve to give him frequently...he is now 3 1/2yrs...but underweight...and also he is lack of multivitamins...based on doctors advice....she gave calcium and iron tonics but my kid is refusing that...
 
Why dont you ask the swamiji himself? Wont he be the best guide for you, as he is like god for you?

If you are already confused, the answers here will only confuse you more.

You dont want to google, you dont want to check with doctors directly, but, living in coimbatore, you would rather seek the advise of forum members. But that is fine.

Looking at your posts, I get the feeling that there might be more behind the facade you seem to be constructing here.
 
Why dont you ask the swamiji himself? Wont he be the best guide for you, as he is like god for you?

If you are already confused, the answers here will only confuse you more.

You dont want to google, you dont want to check with doctors directly, but, living in coimbatore, you would rather seek the advise of forum members. But that is fine.

Looking at your posts, I get the feeling that there might be more behind the facade you seem to be constructing here.

I agree with your observation. I did not respond to op.
 
I agree with your observation. I did not respond to op.

I feel shivagami has a problem with her child, some supernatural haunting her house, etc. I did not know she is in Coimbatore.

She and her husband may live as vegetarians but still, I think, it may be advisable to give such non-vegetarian food as the small child would easily digest so that its condition (underweight) becomes normal.

But she writes in such manner like "he told that if i eat non vegetarian foods then he don't know", it becomes difficult to make sense out of what she writes. My advice is she and her husband should forthwith disconnect themselves from this swami, whoever he may be (one good possibility is it is Jaggi Vasudev but I doubt whether he is a brahmin.) and show her child to a good child specialist and act according to his advice.

The swamiji seems to have failed in the case of this child because neither the "afraiding" has been cured nor its weight become normal.
 
Dear Sivagami,

What ever you do please make sure your child is actually aneamic before giving iron tonics.

To certain extent doctors in India assume everyone is having Iron Defiency Aneamia..even when I was in India just a simple headache the doctor looking at my thin frame assumed I am anemic when I actually had a hemoglobin of 14.8!

One has to be careful with Iron supplements and not to overdose ..cos it can affect the organs in the body.

Veg food is fine provided you are eating curds, dhall(read not watery sambar which has very little protein in it) and if you eat tofu please give child tofu and also you can make Paneer at home.

With regards to eggs...it is up to you to decide what is best for your child.

If you feel he needs the protein then there is no harm giving him eggs.

BTW have you solved that problem about the haunting??

What did your Guru have to say about it?

BTW Sivagami...I hope all your queries are true cos I do take a lot of time to reply you.

Time is precious too for most of us.
 
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kindly guide me... definitely myself and my husband will live as pure vegeterians only because we are swamijis devotees....but what can i feed to my child? kindly guide me...if you guide me veg. foods..then please tell me...what foods i ve to give him frequently...he is now 3 1/2yrs...but underweight...and also he is lack of multivitamins...based on doctors advice....she gave calcium and iron tonics but my kid is refusing that...

Shivagami,

I already advised you in the other post. Pl. follow that.

Hope you are a tamilian

- give a cup of vendakkai (lady's finger), spinach, tuvaram/toor dhal/lentils
- all fo them have more than enough iron and other vitamins. Make it tasty with little more salt.
- eggs are not at all needed - lentils/tuvar dhal has enough proteins and easier to digest than animal foods.
- carbs/sugar/calories like too much rice/wheat or meat overload the liver. - tulasi, curry powder with turmeric, coriander are anti-oxidants and remove toxic metals in the body.
- give yogurt/milk couple of times a day/
- give oranges/lemon fruits with Vitamin C to digest iron rich foods.
- cook at home, and don't buy outside foods.

To give tonics, add some juice and feed her. Assuming, the doctor has done the necessary tests.
 
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Dear Sivagami,

What ever you do please make sure your child is actually aneamic before giving iron tonics.

To certain extent doctors in India assume everyone is having Iron Defiency Aneamia..even when I was in India just a simple headache the doctor looking at my thin frame assumed I am anemic when I actually had a hemoglobin of 14.8!

One has to be careful with Iron supplements and not to overdose ..cos it can affect the organs in the body.

Veg food is fine provided you are eating curds, dhall(read not watery sambar which has very little protein in it) and if you eat tofu please give child tofu and also you can make Paneer at home.

With regards to eggs...it is up to you to decide what is best for your child.

If you feel he needs the protein then there is no harm giving him eggs.

BTW have you solved that problem about the haunting??

What did your Guru have to say about it?

BTW Sivagami...I hope all your queries are true cos I do take a lot of time to reply you.

Time is precious too for most of us.
all of my words are true only...I don't want to blame you...I did not get any gains if I blame you...even I got married due to the advices and poojas of my swamiji only...he is the child of mother lalitha...he prayed many times for me...he used to tell that I am his child... he is having intuition power...by closing his eyes he will tell what was happened...he knows what I am doing...he will tell to my father whether I am happy or not...my father wont ask me....he is unmarried...he will not expect money...his will not give importance to money...he became so old....even his eyes are not well...he will see my horoscope and tell..ok I am coming to the point....when I told him about my child afraiding...he told there is an yantra buried under the house...he asked me to change the house...I changed the house...but it continues(but decreased)...I again consulted him...he told that it is nothing to worry....just myself and my husband want to change the mindset and want to come to normal life...but whenever my kid is afraid I am unable to tolerate because I am a mother....no mother can tolerate this...I asked his advice for food...he told to give mulai keerai...he gave a lot...but no weight gain...I don't know what to do...
 
Dear Sivagami,

What ever you do please make sure your child is actually aneamic before giving iron tonics.

To certain extent doctors in India assume everyone is having Iron Defiency Aneamia..even when I was in India just a simple headache the doctor looking at my thin frame assumed I am anemic when I actually had a hemoglobin of 14.8!

One has to be careful with Iron supplements and not to overdose ..cos it can affect the organs in the body.

Veg food is fine provided you are eating curds, dhall(read not watery sambar which has very little protein in it) and if you eat tofu please give child tofu and also you can make Paneer at home.

With regards to eggs...it is up to you to decide what is best for your child.

If you feel he needs the protein then there is no harm giving him eggs.

BTW have you solved that problem about the haunting??

What did your Guru have to say about it?

BTW Sivagami...I hope all your queries are true cos I do take a lot of time to reply you.

Time is precious too for most of us.
Thank you renuka madam...please believe me...I will not tell lie to you....I am having a much respect on you...and you are such a person-you came forward for me to give a right advice based on your experience in your both medical and spiritual...even though you don't know my face...you responded to me by reading my words...eventhough you are a respectful doctor...you responded to me...I am very small age and small status...small knowledge...everything smaller than you...but you responded to me...I should ever thankful to you...madam...I will not tell lie to you...even I too don't like lies...I read in garuda puranam ...whoever tell lies they will unable to speak when they dies...I read it when my father in law expired....thanks a lot again madam...
 
Why dont you ask the swamiji himself? Wont he be the best guide for you, as he is like god for you?

If you are already confused, the answers here will only confuse you more.

You dont want to google, you dont want to check with doctors directly, but, living in coimbatore, you would rather seek the advise of forum members. But that is fine.

Looking at your posts, I get the feeling that there might be more behind the facade you seem to be constructing here.
....Sir....I don't want to create any facade...by wasting my time and internet...I don't want to waste others time also...I am not such a person to blame others...its true everything...I know that you did not believed me...I don't know that why you hate me...please believe that no mother will tell lies in her child's case at any cost...please check the below link..that I ve added here....I ve asked most ladies to pray for my kid...many ladies prayed for my kid in the another website...kindly know that at that time I did not created account in Tamilbrahmins......I believed that atleast...all the ladies prayers will cure my kid's problem....kindly pray for my kid especially sri saibaba and sri ragavendra swamy bakthas... - IndusLadies....Many ladies were prayed for my kid...
 
..I asked his advice for food...he told to give mulai keerai...he gave a lot...but no weight gain...I don't know what to do...

Dear Sivagami,

I must tell you one thing..that some children are naturally thin.

As a kid right I was underweight and that sent many into panic mode cos I was growing tall but not gaining much weight.

So you see..some people are naturally thin and they do not gain much weight but they are healthy.

So don't worry...as long as your child is healthy he should be fine.

I have noticed that many who are normal weight during childhood grow up to be plump and chubby eventually and those who were thin are kids grow up being the normal weight eventually.

So I feel just feed your child what he likes to eat and dont worry too much about anything.

I dont know about your Guru..but I feel when it comes to medical advise ask your pediatrician or GP.
 
Thank you renuka madam...please believe me...I will not tell lie to you....I am having a much respect on you...and you are such a person-you came forward for me to give a right advice based on your experience in your both medical and spiritual...even though you don't know my face...you responded to me by reading my words...eventhough you are a respectful doctor...you responded to me...I am very small age and small status...small knowledge...everything smaller than you...but you responded to me...I should ever thankful to you...madam...I will not tell lie to you...even I too don't like lies...I read in garuda puranam ...whoever tell lies they will unable to speak when they dies...I read it when my father in law expired....thanks a lot again madam...

Dear Sivagami,

I am sorry if my words were not were polite.

Ok I believe you.

But I feel it is better you do not rely too much on group prayer for healings etc..why have so many different thought waves focused at your son..it will create a network of confusion in his mind.

Just pray to God..that should be fine.
 
Dear Sivagami,

I am sorry if my words were not were polite.

Ok I believe you.

But I feel it is better you do not rely too much on group prayer for healings etc..why have so many different thought waves focused at your son..it will create a network of confusion in his mind.

Just pray to God..that should be fine.
ok madam thank you:pray:
 
Hi Shivagami,

My apologies if it seemed that hate spewed out of my words, as that was not my intention. True I was being sarcastic as I have a mixed belief in these things, and personally I found the posts to be a little, well, contrived. And I apologize for that.

I would pray that your problems be solved, but it would be wise to seek professional medical help.
 
Hi Shivagami,

My apologies if it seemed that hate spewed out of my words, as that was not my intention. True I was being sarcastic as I have a mixed belief in these things, and personally I found the posts to be a little, well, contrived. And I apologize for that......

I would pray that your problems be solved, but it would be wise to seek professional medical help.
Thank you for your prayers for me....sir....
 
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