sir,My confusion is slightly queer.My father in law passed away on 4-4-2016.He never stayed with us.His last rites were performed by his second wife's sons even though my husband is his eldest son by his first wife.he belonged to varrier community and my MIL to iyer brahmin.My husband performed only 11th day ceremony as per varrier custom and the other family in brahmin custom.Now we have sold our house and have purchased a new flat which we plan to move in october.Can we move in by just boiling milk and perform housewarming after his varshadheergam ceremony which is on march 25th or can we perform gruhapravesam now and move in.We are confused as no one is abe to answer us properly.Please help!