Another sunday.
A beautiful morning with temperature going down further indicating winter is around the corner.
When many are still facing rains in south, Delhi feels comfortable and nice.
Even the political classes are trying to accommodate each other to pass some bills in parliament.
Perhaps It is time to try for finding matrimonial match for extended family members.
I was reading in national daily that though most youngsters want freedom to fall in love and choose their mates for marriage, But still most boys have a
patriarchal mindset wanting their wives to support his parents after marriage and some would like to have dowry from girls side after choosing to fall in love
with the girl and proposing marriage.
Falling in love is a great concept. Researchers have found that girls do not like to marry good looking boys if the boys do not desire lifetime relationships. They
would opt for steady not so good looking guys on whom they can bank on for a lifetime.On the contrary boys prefer girls who are pretty irrespective of the fact
that they are scheming and manipulative . Most boys want a quick fix to satisfy their physical lust , call it love if necessary and move on if possible. Most boys do
not want lifetime commitment with girls.
Given this kind of thinking, what is a reasonable approach to match fixing?
It is best that we become only facilitators for youngsters to meet each other and let them decide if they want each other for a marriage relationship.
We probably can put aside minor differences in caste or location variations and look if two people can genuinely bond and try to make a relationship which can
last long based on their preferances.A minimal capability based on education level ,earning capacity and shared interests could alone be the parameters for
finding the right match.
A beautiful morning with temperature going down further indicating winter is around the corner.
When many are still facing rains in south, Delhi feels comfortable and nice.
Even the political classes are trying to accommodate each other to pass some bills in parliament.
Perhaps It is time to try for finding matrimonial match for extended family members.
I was reading in national daily that though most youngsters want freedom to fall in love and choose their mates for marriage, But still most boys have a
patriarchal mindset wanting their wives to support his parents after marriage and some would like to have dowry from girls side after choosing to fall in love
with the girl and proposing marriage.
Falling in love is a great concept. Researchers have found that girls do not like to marry good looking boys if the boys do not desire lifetime relationships. They
would opt for steady not so good looking guys on whom they can bank on for a lifetime.On the contrary boys prefer girls who are pretty irrespective of the fact
that they are scheming and manipulative . Most boys want a quick fix to satisfy their physical lust , call it love if necessary and move on if possible. Most boys do
not want lifetime commitment with girls.
Given this kind of thinking, what is a reasonable approach to match fixing?
It is best that we become only facilitators for youngsters to meet each other and let them decide if they want each other for a marriage relationship.
We probably can put aside minor differences in caste or location variations and look if two people can genuinely bond and try to make a relationship which can
last long based on their preferances.A minimal capability based on education level ,earning capacity and shared interests could alone be the parameters for
finding the right match.
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