Thread: Horoscope Matching for Love Marriage - Help Needed

Dear Janani,

Having loved a man, are you now going to back out if the
horoscopes do not match ? You are putting the cart before
the horse. Please do not feel bad, but my opinion is that you
should have thought of this first before falling in love.

Anyway, best of luck . Pray God .

regards,
N.R.Ranganathan.

In case of love, proposed to be converted/culminating into marriage, matching the horoscope of the girl with that of her would be mother-in-law will give best results.

Sow.Janani,

In Tamil Nadu (or in India, for that matter) most birth time recordoings are approximate, only. I do not know about your case or your would be's case in that regard though. Most horoscopes are apporoximations only. Checking for finer details from approximate horoscopes are not really justified.

all these horoscope matches, in most cases are done to 'predict' the compatability between the boy and the girl. Any astrolger would readily agree that 'mana porutham' is the most important porutham. Don't waste your time and confuse your mind by chasing astrolgers all over the place.

If both of you have strong 'mana porutham'; if both of you believe in God, all you both haveto do is, sincerely say 'sarvam Krishnarpanam' and start your life. Let your faith lead the way. My best wishes for your happy life.

Cheers!

Dear N.R.Ranganathan,

Thanks for your reply. Me and my lover dont want to get separated for any cause but I am checking with the astrologers for the sake of my parents. Since they are denying for horoscope match. I have already informed my parents to make me married to the person whom i love inspite of horoscope match, but they still wanted to chk the horoscope before proceeding for marriage. I have not yet given the boy's horoscope to my mother. Before that i wanted to chk if they match, so only i am checking with the astrologers. And the boy's parents have already checked it and they dont worry about the Rajju and others, since we have already loved each other and have good understanding about each other.

Dear Raghy,
Thanks for our reply. We both belive in God and we will surely lead our life based on the faith that we have on Lord Krishna.

Dear Janani,
I would suggest that the wedding be solemnised in a Temple, with both of
you praying God to ward off any evil effects due to mismatch of horoscopes.
Please tell your parents that you have gone too far and steady and to withdraw
at this stage is one more sin. Best of luck and God Bless.

Originally Posted by janani23

Dear N.R.Ranganathan,

Thanks for your reply. Me and my lover dont want to get separated for any cause but I am checking with the astrologers for the sake of my parents. Since they are denying for horoscope match. I have already informed my parents to make me married to the person whom i love inspite of horoscope match, but they still wanted to chk the horoscope before proceeding for marriage. I have not yet given the boy's horoscope to my mother. Before that i wanted to chk if they match, so only i am checking with the astrologers. And the boy's parents have already checked it and they dont worry about the Rajju and others, since we have already loved each other and have good understanding about each other.

Dear Raghy,
Thanks for our reply. We both belive in God and we will surely lead our life based on the faith that we have on Lord Krishna.

janani,
After having crossed the bridge to a major extent, do not look back(Thalai Suthum).Actually you are blessed. Go Ahead with the blessings of parents-in-law , and entrust them with the responsibility of convincing your parents. All will be well. Best wishes.

Greetings.

Janani

All members who are experienced in AStrology have given their ideas and opinons
and expressed blessings for you
They why are u waiting...
Go ahead... god bless you....for your marriage....

janani,

usually i am one of the first ones to jump in at situations like this.

but we have an unusual instance of a number of forumites who are not in support of you/yours, but have made valuable suggestions how to overcome your parental obstacles.

personally, i think, to go to an astrologer with a wishful thinking of result, is putting a 50 50 chancing for what you deem to be the futre commitment of your life.

if uniformly all the astrologers are against it, and predict the worst, are you going to put yourself in agony, no matter what you decide.

sometimes, i think, where overwhelming desires are present, it is best to let things flow, and manage situations as they come.

the present is your gift of a beloved. embrace the partner, and move ahead to formalize your relationship. no matter what.

best wishes.

hi janani,
there are many success stories of marriages without jataka porutham...
there are failure stories of marriageswith jataka porutham....i know
anusham very well ...we had many anushams in my home....my son
is also anusham star,,even his name anish based on anusham..
its vrichikka rasi...scorpion rasi according to tamil...but once
you decide your life with thorough analysis...if you feel comfortable
..go ahead....if you can swim against the tide/wave in life...
you can proceed.....no marriage is perfect...if somebody says..
perfect ..its purely illusion...its not advice...its purely suggestion...

regards
tbs